Scandalous confessions...

hollyg1920

Okay ladies...

bring on the deepest, darkest, juiciest, most scandalous information about yourself!

Discordia1030

I'll have to think...

allisonmarie22

We're REALLY getting to know each other tonight!

Aside from my obvious fetish for sex in public places (see post below about strangest places you've had sex), I'm also a recovering alcoholic with bipolar disorder and I had been married 3 times by the time I turned 30. 

I live every day of my life just trying my best not to be a walking advertisement for Jerry Springer. I've done really well since I finally found out why I was BSC all the time and got sober almost 2 years ago. Thank God for therapy, medication, AA and a tolerant/loving spouse.

...and I'm leaving out all of the TRULY scandalous parts of my story.  I'm sure most of what you can come up with in your imaginations isn't half as bad as the truth of it all. I'll just say that my late 20's were a very, very dark time.

sassafras007

allisonmarie22:

We're REALLY getting to know each other tonight!

Aside from my obvious fetish for sex in public places (see post below about strangest places you've had sex), I'm also a recovering alcoholic with bipolar disorder and I had been married 3 times by the time I turned 30. 

I live every day of my life just trying my best not to be a walking advertisement for Jerry Springer. I've done really well since I finally found out why I was BSC all the time and got sober almost 2 years ago. Thank God for therapy, medication, AA and a tolerant/loving spouse.

I knew I liked you for a reason!

sam19

I tried to hurt my child when she was 3 weeks old because of PPD. I don't think that's really scandalous but it's the only thing I could come up with that would probably get some people's panties in a wad.

hollyg1920

not sure about the level of scandal (guess it depends on where you live)

I have only dated/slept with black men.  

 

 I have sent a video message (x rated) of me to DH when he was traveling for work and was gone for 2 weeks.

Davesgrl2011

Ok- at the risk of being first....

My best friend is actually my ex-boyfriend of seven years.  And my husband doesn't know it.  It is really ok- I have been friends with this person since Kindergarden (I have a photo of us standing side-by-side in our PJ's when we were five) and he has a awesome girlfriend who I love.  But I don't want it to be weird, so I haven't mentioned the fact that we were in a relationship.  

Once I backed into a little old lady in one of those motorized scooters- I actually tipped her up onto two wheels.  I didn't hurt her, but I never told anyone. 

I had a one-night stand with a guy I met at a club.  I never told anyone about that, either.  This was like 10 years ago, by the way.

I think my sister's depression and anxiety is actually caused by the fact that she doesn't parent her children at all- so they are way out of control.  Her almost five year old is not even close to being potty trained, and the last time I was there, I saw that the light fixture over her dining table was gone, I asked her what happened, and apparently her kids were swinging from it and pulled it out of the ceiling.  But I play along and act sympathetic when I really want to scream at her to be a parent.  

(Now picture me wincing as I prepare for the onslaught of furious comments) 

 

mwitter80

I was in a 7 year relationship with a woman before DH

sassafras007

I was molested for so many years that I cannot remember when it started and when it ended.

I suffer from depression and anxiety but don't take anything for it. I cannot stand medication.

I cannot stand things being scratched and have to fix it or throw it out...including expensive stuff... Shoes, cars, and cell phones are the worst for me... Thera[ist traces it back to ways to "get away" and them being important for me... see first thing above...

 

tara430

When I met my DH he was dating someone else (she was a 20 year old skinny little thing, we were 25).  I stole him away and never felt bad about it.  We did have to lie a little bit to his family about when we first started dating because he was still with her.  To this day when people ask us how long have we been together my response is still "I'm really not sure."

Sorry I'm not that scandalous of a person.  I hope no one confesses to killing anyone haha.

allisonmarie22

Davesgrl2011:

Once I backed into a little old lady in one of those motorized scooters- I actually tipped her up onto two wheels.  I didn't hurt her, but I never told anyone. 

I almost died laughing at this. I know that may be mean, but the mental picture I got reading this was priceless!!

Discordia1030

The only thing I can think of that I'd probably be a huge slut if I didn't start dating DH. That and I've only actually slept with 2 men. One an abusive ashhole and the other my DH, whose virginity I stole.

allisonmarie22

Discordia1030:

The only thing I can think of that I'd probably be a huge slut if I didn't start dating DH. That and I've only actually slept with 2 men. One an abusive ashhole and the other my DH, whose virginity I stole.

This made me think of something amusing...since we're confessing. I told my husband a few years ago that it was a good thing I never joined the military because I would've been a poster child for STDs. I have a serious thing for men in uniform. It would have never been a good idea for me to be around ANY profession where men wear uniforms while I was in my 20's.  Thankfully, I've now matured enough to the point that I can control myself. I still like to look, though!

hollyg1920

Sometimes I watch girl on girl porn (with or without DH) to get in the mood

Discordia1030

allisonmarie22:

Discordia1030:

The only thing I can think of that I'd probably be a huge slut if I didn't start dating DH. That and I've only actually slept with 2 men. One an abusive ashhole and the other my DH, whose virginity I stole.

This made me think of something amusing...since we're confessing. I told my husband a few years ago that it was a good thing I never joined the military because I would've been a poster child for STDs. I have a serious thing for men in uniform. It would have never been a good idea for me to be around ANY profession where men wear uniforms while I was in my 20's.  Thankfully, I've now matured enough to the point that I can control myself. I still like to look, though!

You would have been in trouble in my town then. I live 10 mins from the Naval Academy  

sassafras007

Discordia1030:

allisonmarie22:

Discordia1030:

The only thing I can think of that I'd probably be a huge slut if I didn't start dating DH. That and I've only actually slept with 2 men. One an abusive ashhole and the other my DH, whose virginity I stole.

This made me think of something amusing...since we're confessing. I told my husband a few years ago that it was a good thing I never joined the military because I would've been a poster child for STDs. I have a serious thing for men in uniform. It would have never been a good idea for me to be around ANY profession where men wear uniforms while I was in my 20's.  Thankfully, I've now matured enough to the point that I can control myself. I still like to look, though!

You would have been in trouble in my town then. I live 10 mins from the Naval Academy  

Allison has family in MD. Next time we should go out when she comes to town!

MrsColvin

So this is a scandalous thread so flames arent allowed right ... here we go, ill be completely honest with you guys....

1) the first guy i was ever with was my substitute teacher when i was in high school. we did it on his desk

2) when i was 18- 19 when i delivered, i had a child, i gave my rights away to him and he was adopted by his biological father's wife. i figured he'd be better off with them than with a single mom and at least he is with his biological father. 

3) ive been  married once before DH. this man was the most abusive son of b!tch ive ever met. after i got away from him i slept with anything that had a pulse (male or female)  just to feel like i was in control and never slept with the same person more than once. half of them i dont even remember their names.

venussapphire

sassafras007:

allisonmarie22:

We're REALLY getting to know each other tonight!

Aside from my obvious fetish for sex in public places (see post below about strangest places you've had sex), I'm also a recovering alcoholic with bipolar disorder and I had been married 3 times by the time I turned 30. 

I live every day of my life just trying my best not to be a walking advertisement for Jerry Springer. I've done really well since I finally found out why I was BSC all the time and got sober almost 2 years ago. Thank God for therapy, medication, AA and a tolerant/loving spouse.

well at least you are interesting

I knew I liked you for a reason!

Discordia1030

sassafras007:

Discordia1030:

allisonmarie22:

Discordia1030:

The only thing I can think of that I'd probably be a huge slut if I didn't start dating DH. That and I've only actually slept with 2 men. One an abusive ashhole and the other my DH, whose virginity I stole.

This made me think of something amusing...since we're confessing. I told my husband a few years ago that it was a good thing I never joined the military because I would've been a poster child for STDs. I have a serious thing for men in uniform. It would have never been a good idea for me to be around ANY profession where men wear uniforms while I was in my 20's.  Thankfully, I've now matured enough to the point that I can control myself. I still like to look, though!

You would have been in trouble in my town then. I live 10 mins from the Naval Academy  

Allison has family in MD. Next time we should go out when she comes to town!

Agreed. The family actually lives in the same city where my DH works. I was going to see about doing a gtg but that was when DH got in the accident.  

venussapphire

sassafras007:

allisonmarie22:

We're REALLY getting to know each other tonight!

Aside from my obvious fetish for sex in public places (see post below about strangest places you've had sex), I'm also a recovering alcoholic with bipolar disorder and I had been married 3 times by the time I turned 30. 

I live every day of my life just trying my best not to be a walking advertisement for Jerry Springer. I've done really well since I finally found out why I was BSC all the time and got sober almost 2 years ago. Thank God for therapy, medication, AA and a tolerant/loving spouse.

well at least you are interesting

I knew I liked you for a reason!

allisonmarie22

sam19:

I tried to hurt my child when she was 3 weeks old because of PPD. I don't think that's really scandalous but it's the only thing I could come up with that would probably get some people's panties in a wad.

I would hate to think that anyone would be hateful to you because of this. PPD is no joking matter, and I'm so glad that you got help.  I'm so terrified of going through this after my LOs arrive...

This thread reminds me of the Postsecret website and books...which I love.

 

allisonmarie22

Discordia1030:

sassafras007:

Discordia1030:

allisonmarie22:

Discordia1030:

The only thing I can think of that I'd probably be a huge slut if I didn't start dating DH. That and I've only actually slept with 2 men. One an abusive ashhole and the other my DH, whose virginity I stole.

This made me think of something amusing...since we're confessing. I told my husband a few years ago that it was a good thing I never joined the military because I would've been a poster child for STDs. I have a serious thing for men in uniform. It would have never been a good idea for me to be around ANY profession where men wear uniforms while I was in my 20's.  Thankfully, I've now matured enough to the point that I can control myself. I still like to look, though!

You would have been in trouble in my town then. I live 10 mins from the Naval Academy  

Allison has family in MD. Next time we should go out when she comes to town!

Agreed. The family actually lives in the same city where my DH works. I was going to see about doing a gtg but that was when DH got in the accident.  

I'll be back in February!!  I'm already having vivid porno-like dreams about Red, Hot and Blue BBQ. 

sam19

allisonmarie22:

sam19:

I tried to hurt my child when she was 3 weeks old because of PPD. I don't think that's really scandalous but it's the only thing I could come up with that would probably get some people's panties in a wad.

I would hate to think that anyone would be hateful to you because of this. PPD is no joking matter, and I'm so glad that you got help.  I'm so terrified of going through this after my LOs arrive...

This thread reminds me of the Postsecret website and books...which I love.

 

Thank you. I had an amazing support system. Not super impressed with my doctor's after I left the psych ward but family and friends and a little help from anti depressants got me through it. 

Discordia1030

allisonmarie22:

Discordia1030:

sassafras007:

Discordia1030:

allisonmarie22:

Discordia1030:

The only thing I can think of that I'd probably be a huge slut if I didn't start dating DH. That and I've only actually slept with 2 men. One an abusive ashhole and the other my DH, whose virginity I stole.

This made me think of something amusing...since we're confessing. I told my husband a few years ago that it was a good thing I never joined the military because I would've been a poster child for STDs. I have a serious thing for men in uniform. It would have never been a good idea for me to be around ANY profession where men wear uniforms while I was in my 20's.  Thankfully, I've now matured enough to the point that I can control myself. I still like to look, though!

You would have been in trouble in my town then. I live 10 mins from the Naval Academy  

Allison has family in MD. Next time we should go out when she comes to town!

Agreed. The family actually lives in the same city where my DH works. I was going to see about doing a gtg but that was when DH got in the accident.  

I'll be back in February!!  I'm already having vivid porno-like dreams about Red, Hot and Blue BBQ. 

OMG. I LOVE that place. 

MrsL8487

Hmm I am a pretty boring person...but I guess I can think of a few things.

I drank smirnoff in sunday school when I was 15.

I had my first kiss in the church parking lot in front of the paster and most of the members...did I mention that I'm a PK (preachers kid) So most of my scandalous stories are at church..lol sad I know

When I first got with my DH he was married, but his wife (at the time) had three boyfriends and had kicked him to the curb.

And thats about it. Like I said I'm pretty boring... 

AliciaS1411

I JUST started taking my PNVs...last night. 

(m/s has been to bad to keep them down)

DH and I started dating when I was 12 and he was 16. (was WAY scandalous at the time..haha)

 

I've showered with 157 other people...at the same time...both sexes. Ahh Drum corp.  

kloveny

Hmm...My old best friend & I shared a guy for hooking up (not at the same time!) - my friend was a guy too. 

The guy that we shared had a male friend that "shared guy" & I both hooked up with. (also not at the same time, but that might have been fun!)

Not sure if that all makes sense to you  

Katie829

I really wish I had something to confess. I guess I am pretty boring. 

I love reading this thread. It makes me realize how real everyone is.  

strawberrytree

Ok, you want scandalous? 

I was such a perfect kid in high school (I drank twice- one time at my grad party- never had sex or did drugs, was on the honour roll every year and played varsity sports every term) and went wild my last two years of undergrad. Lots of drinking, partying and guys. After I graduated I moved to Ireland on my own, met a bunch of wild people, and kept it up.

Eventually it all came to a head when I unexpectedly became pregnant. I was 22, not in a relationship, living away from home and far from my family and real friends (I had plenty of acquaintances, but not REAL friends), in a very unstable environment- not a great world to bring a child into. Since I was in Ireland where abortion is illegal, I had to fly to England (on my own) for a termination appointment. They did an ultrasound in a pre-checkup and determined that at 9 weeks there was only a sac, no baby at all, and sent me home to miscarry.

After that my life did a 180 and I reverted back to the old, pre-partying me. It was absolutely without question the worst and loneliest experience of my life. Every day I am so grateful for my DH and I pray I will never be that alone again. 

 

Sorry if this one was a downer! 

rach1811

1) my husband has never made me orgasm, thank God I can do it so well myself or else I would despise him. I know we need to work on this.

2) I tried meth in his school, someone said lets do ice, I was new and wanted to fit in so I tried it. I was so naive I had no idea that was a street name for meth.

I started out with numbers b/c I thought there would be more. Lol 

E3A7AGGIE

Katie829:

I really wish I had something to confess. I guess I am pretty boring. 

I love reading this thread. It makes me realize how real everyone is.  

This!

allisonmarie22

rach1811:

1) my husband has never made me orgasm, thank God I can do it so well myself or else I would despise him. I know we need to work on this.

I'm right there with ya. No man has ever made me orgasm. Thank God I'm not shy about DJing, otherwise I'd never orgasm!!  However, it does drive my husband NUTS that he can't get the job done on his own. It's not that he's not good at what he's doing...I just have very particular lady parts.  I don't mind it. It makes him try EXTRA hard. 

katmacwv

Starting at age 13, I was always in a relationship.  However, I cheated on almost every guy I dated except DH.  I've never mentioned that detail to DH.  I should mention that when I say cheated, I never slept with the "other guys".  I guess I was slick because I never got caught cheating even though most of the other guys knew I had a boyfriend.

mmeross

I don't remember the last name of the guy I lost my virginity too.  He was a German Foreign Exchange student staying with my best friend... He was also a huge slut and slept with anyone who moved... Including me. I don't regret it, I regret getting caught by my best friends mom, my first time... In handcuffs.

rach1811

allisonmarie22:

rach1811:

1) my husband has never made me orgasm, thank God I can do it so well myself or else I would despise him. I know we need to work on this.

I'm right there with ya. No man has ever made me orgasm. Thank God I'm not shy about DJing, otherwise I'd never orgasm!!  However, it does drive my husband NUTS that he can't get the job done on his own. It's not that he's not good at what he's doing...I just have very particular lady parts.  I don't mind it. It makes him try EXTRA hard. 

 

Im glad I'm not the only one

P.s. I was a virgin until marriage and I kinda wish I had been able to experience other men haha.  

sam19

Oh I got one! It totally turns me on when my husband chokes me during sex.

And I'm totally a squirter. 

Katie829

I have one..

This is more embarrassing, but oh well. 

One night while DH was down on me, I accidentally farted. In retrospect it still hilarious, but embarrassing and gross at the same time. 

allisonmarie22

sam19:

Oh I got one! It totally turns me on when my husband chokes me during sex.

And I'm totally a squirter. 

You totally drove me to this...

I love the butt sex. 

There. I said it. 

Pookie05

E3A7AGGIE:

Katie829:

I really wish I had something to confess. I guess I am pretty boring. 

I love reading this thread. It makes me realize how real everyone is.  

This!

Ditto. I'm a goodie-goodie I guess, but here is my best.

I lost my virginity to my boyfriend (future DH) at 19 in his bedroom while his family was still at work/school. We used to sneak into his house during lunch in high school to make out. We would also stop and pull over on the side of the road on our way home from dates to kiss... and do other stuff... hm I love sex.

I developed an eating disorder and body dismorphic disorder at 11yrs old . I still suffer from the second making pregnancy pretty difficult.

 

amberlynnr7

sassafras007:

allisonmarie22:

We're REALLY getting to know each other tonight!

Aside from my obvious fetish for sex in public places (see post below about strangest places you've had sex), I'm also a recovering alcoholic with bipolar disorder and I had been married 3 times by the time I turned 30. 

I live every day of my life just trying my best not to be a walking advertisement for Jerry Springer. I've done really well since I finally found out why I was BSC all the time and got sober almost 2 years ago. Thank God for therapy, medication, AA and a tolerant/loving spouse.

I knew I liked you for a reason!

Same here! I love your sarcasm & whit.. you definitely make this board spicy!

rach1811

allisonmarie22:

sam19:

Oh I got one! It totally turns me on when my husband chokes me during sex.

And I'm totally a squirter. 

You totally drove me to this...

I love the butt sex. 

There. I said it. 

 

Omg this thread is so fun!!! Lol