DTD clicky poll

desdemona39 · December 2011

Because I'm bored, and because a friend of mine was *shocked* that DH & I still find time for it "doesn't that all stop when you have a kid??" To which I asked how she thinks people have multiple children....

So how often are you ladies and your SO's DTD?

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ITGurl0626 · December 2011

We are averaging 3 - 4x a week. Before baby we had sex just about everyday.

Nechie122 · December 2011

It's funny because I've seen absolutely no change at all. We had sex 1-2x week before baby, every week of pregnancy and every week after baby. The only time we took off was the six weeks after delivery until I got "clearance" from the OB.

OverjoyedMama · December 2011

Since DS nil.

snoopy5512 · December 2011

For us? Before DD and mid preg... 3-5 times a week at least. Mid preg-Delivery- 2ish times a week. 2 Weeks after DD? Once a week.... Since about 3-4 months old-- 1-3 times a week. Depends on if DD is sleeping well or not. She mostly is a good sleeper, but if she is sick or something is going on and Mama is tired... No. Though, even if I am not "in the mood" we still do it, as I "get" in the mood, and I think it keeps our marriage strong.

CourtneyRenee9109 · December 2011

Before pregnancy we had sex every day.

Towards the end of the pregnancy, things REALLY slowed down to maybe once a week.

After the baby, we started at maybe 1-2 a month because I was having so much pain. About 3 months after birth we discovered the reason for the pain during sex. (pelvic floor dysfunction)

I'm finally experiencing a lot less pain since we've been treating the condition; but it's SO tough for me to get in the mood.

I think most of it is anxiety of the possible pain.

We're working on it but right now it's about once a week, if that. =/

MamaViking · December 2011

I cannot believe some of you hornballs used to do it every day! I'm getting tired just thinking about it. Stick out tongue

KatieRL1979 · December 2011

It's been over a month probably since DH and I have had sex and we've probably only done it a handfull of times since this second baby was born in June. I'm so sleep deprived there's no way I can get it up for him, and now with two babies there just isn't time. The last few months also my hormones have been all over the place. I'm having spotting/bleeding for a day or two every single week so we're in the process of working with my OB on a solution to getting my body back on track before we hop back in the sack.