Need Advice (warning, tmi)

spacystasi

So DH came down with a cold yesterday, and he's totally congested.  Well, this just happens to be O week, and all signs are totally a go (ewcm, low temp, open cervix, etc), so I'm really, really hoping to get some tonight!  Unfortunately when DH called on his lunch break, yup, still sick.  I asked him if we can have sex tonight, he's not sure he feels up to it.  Grrrrr.

So here are my options:

1. Let the poor man rest and get over his cold, most likely missing this month's fertile period
2. Drug him up on Nyquil and pray that he can perform
3. Send him a naughty text when he gets off work, and be waiting and ready when he gets home (in other words, seducing him before he can even tell me no)

So ladies, what do you suggest?

seattlestef

Naughty text for sure!

tfarabians

Ugh but you certainly don't want to get sick!   What about waiting until tomorrow?

spacystasi

I'm thinking tomorrow might be too late =(  I normally wouldn't worry too mush about that, but since we haven't had sex since Friday and this is our 6th cycle, I really don't want to miss any opportunity.

Plus, last night he was totally breathing on me in his sleep, so I'm thinking if I'm meant to get, I'll get the cold anyway

pixelvixen

Ahhh, take the reigns.  Go for it.  Don't all men think that any sex is good sex?  And I'm sure he'll forget he's sick for a little while at least. 

scarletii

Go for it!!!!

The month we conceived Hannah, I thought for sure wouldn't be the month, cause we both had colds...What about drugging him up on dayquil?  That wouldn't make him sleepy.

cmcmillan

I say go for it!  I am sure he will be willing to par-take once the ball gets rolling.

Nancy_Drew

Tell him you'll do all the work, and the activity will be good to clear up his sinuses! 

Dont let him tell you no, just jump him.

JRS72206

I vote naughty text!!

JDCSKF

I say naughty text, and them wait for him to come home and serve him chicken soup in your birthday suit. I am sure he won't pass that up!

Seattle_JiLLn

I say tell him to man up and just do it.  It doesn't have be fun or last long. 

LuvBug12683

Rape him hehe!!
Definatley #3!! Tell him he wont have to do much, just sit back, relax and enjoy!!

Good Luck!!

m&m823

No mouth kissing.    Definitely sex though.  Pretend your Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman  (she wouldn't kiss on the mouth).

karaU

Did you ever see the friends episode where Monica is trying to seduce Chandler when she was sick?  I suggest that

cwhip77

Well don't give him Nyquil whatever you do, that's a one way street to Coma-ville!

I'd see how he feels and play it by ear. 

FutureMrsLynch

Be like Nike and Just Do It!!

 So whats it like having 15 girls pushing you to have sex when you're not sure if you should??  Do you feel like you're back in high school??

applecider

Do it for his sake.  Sex makes everything better, even the immune system.

angluvsammon

I am late to the game, but I say option #3 all the way!! Good luck

keri1013

Late to the voting here, but just wanted to say I hope you had success!

IdahoGirl

I'm hoping you went for #3!!!