I've been a lurker for the past month. My DH and I are on our 2nd cycle TTC. Most of my questions get asked and answered by others so I haven't posted, but now I'd like a little advice.
My SIL went in today for an U/S and there was no heartbeat. She is having a D&C (I think) later in the week. She was 11 weeks. I feel so awful and want to do or say something but I don't know what is appropriate. For anyone that has been through something similar, is there anything I can do to be helpful?
Can I send flowers or a card or maybe chocolates? My DH and I live far away so I can't go in person. I mailed her a cute onesie two weeks ago and now I feel bad that I did that.