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I wasn't sure how to respond to this...

ruthymusneyruthymusney member
in Late Term and Child Loss

My nephew (4) put his hand on my belly last night. I told him the baby wasn't in there anymore.  He said "well where is she then?" I told him she was in heaven.  He acted upset and went in the other room.  I wanted to cry so hard. 

Tonight I saw two babys that would be a week older than Kyndal.  Life is unfair.  I miss my baby.

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    illinigalillinigal member
    That is tough.  Huge hugs.
    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

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    AmyG2bAmyG2b member
    I'm really sorry that happened. Hugs to you. 
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    CaroleeCarolee member
    Big (((HUGS))).  That must have been so hard.
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
    Too beautiful for this earth
    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
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    krysiahamatykrysiahamaty
    Ugh that is a tough one. Big hugs. Sorry. :-(
    TTC since November 2009. DH diagnosed with sperm antibodies. IUI #1 = BFN IUI #2 = BFN On the road to IVF.... Egg Retrieval Jan 21, 2011 16 eggs retrieved Egg transfer Jan 26, 2011 Only 2 viable eggs transferred. 1 IVF, 1 ICSI IVF #1 = BFP :-) 10/3/11 No heart beat at 38 weeks: Our baby Jack became an angel 12/14/11 = natural BFP Rainbow baby Samantha Jacklyn born8/8/12. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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    pandabearloverpandabearlover
    I'm so sorry. Right after we lost Quincy, my oldest DD would touch my belly and say she thought there was another baby in there. It broke my heart.
    Momma to 2 sweet girls here on earth and a precious baby boy in heaven
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    magdalina.hmagdalina.h member
    It's very unfair. ((hugs))
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    johnnys junejohnnys june member
    HUGE *hugs*
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    starrkitten89starrkitten89
    So many (((hugs)))

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    T1 diabetes diagnosed 11/95 due to severe pancreatic injury
    BFP 1 1/22/10 EDD 9/30/10 Adria b. 9/11/10 d.8/9/11, Transposition of the Great Arteries,
    Pleural effusion, Kidney Failure
    BFP 2 4/26/12 EDD 1/3/13 M/C 5/13/12
    BFP 3 10/3/12 EDD 6/17/13 Twins! Preston and Juliet b. 5/22/13

     

     

     

     

     

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    mrssopranomrssoprano member

    (((Hugs)))

    I agree it's not fair and I want my baby back.

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    Mother to DD, born sleeping on 9/28/11, and DS, born 3/12/13, 5lbs 13oz, 19in
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    mrsnapaluchmrsnapaluch
    One of my dogs would always sniff my belly any time I would be away from her and then she would lick all over it like she was giving Avery kisses. After delivery, I got to come home, she kept sniffing my belly but she wouldn't kiss it. I almost died. I knew it ould happen, but I never expected it to hurt so bad. HUGS
    Avery Alexander Napaluch born sleeping October 24, 2011 at 32 weeks.
    He was 4lbs. 9oz. and 17&1/2in. He was absolute perfection.

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    butterfly843butterfly843
    Sending big hugs your way.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

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