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How did you ladies holding up last night?

roxyttandmeroxyttandme member
in Late Term and Child Loss
Just wondering how you ladies are doing? 
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  • goillini823goillini823 member
    I got really sad last night. These two days are difficult. My 8 year old cousin died of a brain tumor 12 years ago today. I used to babysit him a lot, and was super close to him. I also start getting sad in general missing Gabriel as the holidays start approaching. 
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  • Mrs NiceMrs Nice member
    I did okay yesterday. I had a couple of crying episodes, but we went out last night for a friends b-day and baby boy was the most active he has been yet! (I think it was the chocolate cake) so that helped. How about you?

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    I was pretty sad but touched by all the support from family and friends.

    My brother's best friend died last night very unexpectedly so that has shifted the focus this morning.

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  • magdalina.hmagdalina.h member
    Yesterday morning was super tough for me. I was looking at Aidan's pictures for my blog post. I just sat and sobbed for a good 5 minutes.
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  • Kris721Kris721 member
    Yesterday was really tough. I also ran out of my Zoloft.
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  • agranagran member
    I'm still very early in my loss and we buried our baby girl yesterday.  So yesterday was really, really tough.  We went to the cemetary around 8 to check on her and many parents had lit candles and placed them on graves.  I was so touched by that-- it was amazingly beautiful to see all the candles flickering in the twilight.  I think we'll do that next year. 


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  • Auki13Auki13 member

    imageagran:
    I'm still very early in my loss and we buried our baby girl yesterday.  So yesterday was really, really tough.  We went to the cemetary around 8 to check on her and many parents had lit candles and placed them on graves.  I was so touched by that-- it was amazingly beautiful to see all the candles flickering in the twilight.  I think we'll do that next year. 

     

    What a great idea.  I didn't even think of doing that.  I hope to do this next year too.  Thank you for sharing that and I am so sorry you are so raw in your grief.  The first several days/weeks are definitely the hardest.  Just be gentle with yourself and do what is best for you.  HUGS

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