This part is hard.

emmaleaf

I posted three months ago when I found out that my DH (now ex DH) had been cheating on me and wanted to get a divorce. DD was 6 months then.

Fast forward to now and I'm surviving and doing okay. Ex DH has been a decent "father" and shows up for all of his visitations. But now in two weeks, the  girlfriend is moving to our city and is going to live with ex DH in the house we owned. Classy. I just don't know how to cope with this. When she was in another state, it was easier to forget that she exists. And even though I definitely don't desire ex DH anymore, I still feel like moving her here is just rubbing this all in my face. Salt in the wound, much? Ugh... I guess I'm just venting and hoping that karma kicks them both in the ass...

achase123

Karma might...however, the best revenge is living a good life, yourself.  Don't worry about what THEY are doing and the rest will eventually fall into place.

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lauragetsfit

The important part is that you're doing well and that he's being a good dad to your baby. I agree with the ladies above...Don't worry about what they're doing. They suck. Just focus on yourself and your baby. Karma will kick them both in the butt, eventually. I'm trying to remain positive, too. The good thing is that my STBEH is signing over parental rights (he doesn't want the baby and suggested I get an abortion) and I won't have to hear about him with anyone else. I know it's gonna be hard, but we'll all get through this. If you ever need to talk, I'm always here