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How many partners has your DH had?

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Re: How many partners has your DH had?

  • howleyshellhowleyshell member

    Way fewer than me.

    We've never talked specifics but he was married fairly young and with his first wife for 7 years (including dating) and then was busy raising a baby on his own so had very little time for that kinda thing. 

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  • MyShellyBellyMyShellyBelly
    He's had 3 and I've had 2 (that includes each other)
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  • Mrs.BabbsyMrs.Babbsy member

    8, I am definitely higher:)

     

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  • krissyh21krissyh21 member
    I was never interested in knowing numbers so I am not sure we ever asked each other. I know about his meaningful relationships before me but not the others.
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  • mrsolsenk12mrsolsenk12
    I think 8 but i am having a hard time remembering. 
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  • meechrobimeechrobi

    My DH is in the Navy and had been for almost 10 years when I met him... I truly dont want to know.

    (not to attach a stigma to the military... I love my hubby... but I have been around enough sailors to know that they are a bunch of horn dogs!)

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  • marcuejmarcuej member
    We made the decision early on not to share this type of info with each other.  We both have no idea how many people we've each been with and I'm happy about that.  It certainly wouldn't add anything to our marriage so we just decided to leave it alone.
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  • CassianCassian
    Just me. He was a late bloomer waiting for love. And so shy with girls.
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  • efhoping2010efhoping2010 member
    He has had just 1, me.  It makes me feel like a whore knowing that, I had two others before him :(
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  • GenRN45GenRN45
    He won't tell me. But I think 2
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  • SeaSoulSeaSoul member
    when we first met, he told me "7 or 8"...but i could only account for 5 after talking about various relationships.  he's not one to keep track.  i assure you he could not answer the same question of me.
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  • beebe929beebe929 member

    less than me... and he actually tried to beef up the number when we were first together to avoid being less "experienced" than I.

     

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  • GuitaristsGirlGuitaristsGirl

    imagekrissyh21:
    I know about his meaningful relationships before me but not the others.

    This.  I think about 8, but I don't know a number.  When the general topic has come up he's been vague, and I think I'd sound rediculous demanding a number, even if I really wanted to know.  I know about past girlfriends, and I assume there were a few flings/ one night stands thrown in. 

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  • TheSkimmyTheSkimmy member
    2 he was with his gf for 6 years when we met when he was almost 22. 
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  • dana316dana316 member

    He said around 10, so I figure that means 5 ;)

     

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  • browneyedgrl4282browneyedgrl4282 member
    3 and I know he was being honest (that is including me)! Man I feel like a whore next to him!
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  • JessandJeremyJessandJeremy member
    5...my guys is a relationship guy. His first time was when he was 13......scary huh? HS girlfriend, College GF, one in between, then me.
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  • MonkeysGirl05MonkeysGirl05
    Don't know... I asked once, but he didn't care to share. Now I don't care. Def more than me.
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  • lrrblrrb
    Just me....

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  • schmoodleschmoodle member
    Either 5 or 6, I don't remember. We either had exactly the same # or he had one more, and mine is 5 I think...
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  • crystalgirlcrystalgirl
    Only one for him, too. :) But we were 18! (Of course, he had dated a TON of girls before me, so it was a little surprising on his end.)
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