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Might be Pregnant? (TMI)

homelyauthorhomelyauthor
in March 2011 Moms

Sunday night DH wanted to "do it," so we did. When he pulled out afterwards, the condom was missing. Apparently it had come off (inside) shortly after he climaxed. He says most of the stuff stayed in it. I felt little bits of cramping as I got ready for bed. Now (Tuesday morning), I found a little bit of blood in my panties. Normally, I wouldn't think anything of that; but I haven't heard a peep from AF since I got pregnant last June. 

It's not that we don't want to get pregnant again; it's just that we are hoping to wait a little longer before doing so. We want our kids to be 18-24 months apart.

Now I'm nervous. I'm definitely not ready to be pregnant again. So this could mean either AF is going to show up, or I must be pregnant... right? I'm not good with the 'waiting game'.

I guess I'm just looking for a way to calm my nerves while I wait to find out what this all means... Thanks ladies :) 

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  • perplexed59perplexed59

    Oh NO!!! Deep breaths! I hate when you are trying to be all responable and things like this happen. If you haven't had AF yet it would be an awfully big coincidence that you were ovulating then.

    If you are pregnant then I would say you were suppose to get pregnant. Really what are the odds, all that stuff happening at once ;) At least you would have 9 months to get use to the idea!

    I hope whatever happens that its what you want! Let us know what the outcome is! 

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  • adoubleu12adoubleu12 member

     No matter what, everything always works itself out!  When I found out I was pregnant (before I found out I was having twins)  I was scared to death!  Then I found out I was having two and I was sure there was no way I could do it!  If I were you I would POAS as soon as possible. Keep us updated!  

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  • homelyauthorhomelyauthor
    imageperplexed59:

    If you haven't had AF yet it would be an awfully big coincidence that you were ovulating then.

    No AF yet, but for a few days every week or two (since postpartum bleeding stopped), I get (TMI) really gooey- like when I ovulated pre-pg.

     

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    If you are pregnant then I would say you were suppose to get pregnant.

    That's what I told DH.

    I'm just holding my breath... I don't want to get pg yet and I don't want AF again-- I'm liking this whole 'no period's thing! :) 

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  • TwinkzTwinkz
    If he went "digging" for the condom it could have caused you to spot a little too. I definitely agree that if it happens, it was meant to be though I live 99.9% of my life with that belief. Fingers crossed that it was a fluke and you don't get AF back yet and you aren't pg again!
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  • carinamarie77carinamarie77 member
    Feels like forever since I got prego but does implantation bleeding happen that fast? I feel like you might be more paranoid than anything else since you JUST dtd on Sunday. I would put it far from your mind: drink some wine, eat some sushi, ride your bike, etc. Do normal stuff and sooner than you want to see her, AF will be back.
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  • sweetpea2718sweetpea2718
    It will be hard not to dwell on it, but like PP said, try to just enjoy things until you would test in a couple weeks.  I'm still AF free, am EBF with a great supply, and although am not on BC, we've used other precautions and I STILL get nervous that something could have happened.  I felt so much safer taking a pill :/ 
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  • veronica2447veronica2447

    Homelyauthor, I posted something very similar to your post on Facebook. (but AF stopped by yesterday)...

    anywho, much like you, I want to wait until Lily is a year old before DH and I start trying for #2. To be honest, up until our little "scare" I had a bit of baby fever (I blame this on all the pregnant women around me) I still wanted to stick to our plan, but i thought i would be happy if I got pregnant sooner... Well right after our incident happened (DH didnt pull out on time.. I know, I know TMI for sure) I totally freaked out! Hundreds of diffrent thoughts crossed my mind about why it would be better to wait until Lily is a year old. Like the fact that I would love to give her give her all my attention right now, or (I know this is dumb) but if I got pregnant right now, then I would be really pregnant when her first birthday came around, and what if I wasn't able to have a party for her LOL If it would've turned out I was pregnant, I know I would deal with the fact that it didnt happen as planned, and I would've been thrilled about the pregnancy.

    Best of luck to you. Please keep us posted.

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