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Coming over

CTumeltyCTumelty
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Hi,

I just found out today that we lost our baby. From what I am being told the baby stoped growing after 6 weeks (I was 8 weeks yesterday). I will be having a d&c Mon or Tues. Guess my body likes to think it's still pregnant. I have no idea what to think and as bad as it may sound I just want the baby out. I want answers (doubt I will get any). I am holding up ok for now but I know that once the procedure is done I will be feeling all the emotions all over again.

Thanks for letting me join this board.

TTC #1 since March 09 4 rounds of Clomind = BFN IUI #1 1/19/11 = BFP Beta #1 2/3 = 12, Beta #2 2/7 = 24, Beta #3 2/9 = 24 Chemical Preganancy IUI #2 2/28/11 = BFN IUI #3 3/30/11 = BFN IVF #1 ER 5/26, 30 retrived, 19 fertilized and 9 frozen ET 5/31 1st beta - 6/13 BFP 636! 2nd beta - 6/15 1510 3rd beta - 6/17 2700 missed m/c 7/8/11 8w1d d&c 7/11/11 ttcal FET schedule for 10/6/11 Beta #1 10/19 - 628 Beta #2 10/21 1337 Beta # 10/24 2817 missed m/c at 7 weeks. FET #2 2/21 transferred 2 perfect snowbabies. Please let this be it! Beta #1 3/5 - 1,589! image
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  • coastalmainecoastalmaine member
    So sorry for your loss. It isn't easy and the feelings you are having are totally normal. My body also thought it was still pregnant...I still had morning sickness on the day of my D&C. So frustrating.  Hang in there, my thoughts are with you.
    Chemical Pregnancy 2001, Married 8/8/09, TTC April 2011, BFP 5/8/11, Missed M/C @ 9wk5d, D&C 6/21/11 BFP 11/13/11 Chase Everett born at 29wks 0 days on 5/7/12 at 2 lbs 14 oz, 14 1/2 inches long.
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  • ally2011ally2011 member

    I am so sorry for your loss.  Rest as much as you can and take care of yourself.  You will get through this and we are all here for you in the meantime.

    Hugs,

    Jenn

    We are so thankful that our second daughter, Lillian Elizabeth "Lily", was born healthy and happy on February 11, 2013.  We love her to pieces.  

    We lost our first daughter, Hannah Grace on May 4, 2011.  She was buried on May 14 during a beautiful service at my home church. We are grateful that if she could not be here with us, that she is healed and whole with the Lord. We look forward to the day when we will get to meet her. We love her so much.


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  • mrs.julia.gooliamrs.julia.goolia

    I am so sorry you are dealing with this. The waiting for your body to 'get it' sucks SO bad. I waited for 10 days before opting for a medication-induced m/c because my body still didn't get the memo. I went through every emotion possible during those 10 days and a lot of them revolved around 'just get it out of me so I can move on'.

    Hang in there, hugs, and good luck with the procedure.

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    BFP#2 - 03.24.11 | EDD 11.29.11 | missed MC found @9w 04.26.11 | D&C @16w 06.13.11
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  • erockmommaerockmomma member

    I am so sorry for your loss. You'll always be welcome here but I am sorry you have to join.

    My experience was different but I know what it feels like when your body can't quite get it right.  I started bleeding lightly right away but it still felt like my body wasn't ready to let go because it continued for three full weeks.  I just wanted the constant reminder to go away.  Even after the D&C you'll probably have times when the emotions come back afresh.  I still do. 

    Try to get some rest and be kind to yourself.

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