Yes, I'm grasping here. Another negative test today and have what feels like AF cramps. But my chart still looks great, so I'm remaining somewhat optimistic until AF shows (which, based on my history, should be anytime).
You should try posting on the 1st tri board since all those ladies have gotten BFP. OR you can search the FF charts. I've seen quite a lot of BFP charts after 12 DPO on FF.
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I've never had a positive, but I have scoured the FF chart galleries for positives after negatives, and it happens quite often.
Good luck
This. I spent part of the morning searching FF charts for "Negative HPT before positive" and tons came back 12 DPO and beyond. I was actually surprised at how many DPO some were. I think sometimes FF calculates O wrong though which makes it seem like its a long time past O when it really wasn't.
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with DD I got a BFN at 11 DPO...I started spotting at 12 DPO and thought it was AF but after a few days of spotting and it was clear it wasn't AF, I tested again (this was at 16 DPO) I got a BFP. I also had bad AF-like cramps prior to the BFP (and after for awhile..) Does this help give you hope? GL!
ETA: implantation spotting (which is what I think I had) is rare, just keep that in mind
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Yes, I'm grasping here. Another negative test today and have what feels like AF cramps. But my chart still looks great, so I'm remaining somewhat optimistic until AF shows (which, based on my history, should be anytime).
Thanks ladies!
I'm in the same boat as you, good luck
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I've never had a positive, but I have scoured the FF chart galleries for positives after negatives, and it happens quite often.
Good luck
This. I spent part of the morning searching FF charts for "Negative HPT before positive" and tons came back 12 DPO and beyond. I was actually surprised at how many DPO some were. I think sometimes FF calculates O wrong though which makes it seem like its a long time past O when it really wasn't.
This! There are a LOT of FF charts that don't get a + until 16, even 17DPO... I know because I too have kept hoping this would happen to me...
Severe MFI. Me: supposedly all clear but eggs showed vacuoles.
IVF #1 January 2012, ER Jan 14th: 34R, 27M, 23F. Day 3: 18 embies still strong. Day 5: zero "good," one "fair," the rest "poor." Transferred 3. None made it to blast or to freeze. Jan 28: BFN.
Lucky IVF #2: Transferred two beautiful day three embies on St. Patrick's Day. BFP on HPT 7dp3dt. Beta 1 (14dpER)=106; Beta 2 (16dpER)=140; Beta 3 (19dpER)=264! First u/s 4.17.
Hope is the thing with feathers - that perches in the soul - and sings the tune without the words - and never stops - at all - (Emily Dickinson)
Just curious where you got these stats? Doesn't it depend on the test? I read the directions on one yesterday that claimed 69% accuracy at 6 days before missed period.
As to the OP, I wasn't charting when I had my DS, but I think I tested around 12 DPO and got a BFN, then started spotting for two days. After that didn't turn into a real period, I tested again (I guess around 14 or 15 DPO) and it was positive. So definitely don't give up hope!
Yes, I'm grasping here. Another negative test today and have what feels like AF cramps. But my chart still looks great, so I'm remaining somewhat optimistic until AF shows (which, based on my history, should be anytime).
Thanks ladies!
I'm in the same boat as you, good luck
Thank you. And good luck to you, too! Keep me posted.
Re: Ever had a negative at 12 dpo but then get a positive?
I've never had a positive, but I have scoured the FF chart galleries for positives after negatives, and it happens quite often.
Good luck
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I am totally guilty of looking at the gallery for BFP charts where the person got a negative before a positive. It definitely does happen.
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This. I spent part of the morning searching FF charts for "Negative HPT before positive" and tons came back 12 DPO and beyond. I was actually surprised at how many DPO some were. I think sometimes FF calculates O wrong though which makes it seem like its a long time past O when it really wasn't.
************ Signature/Ticker Warning ************
Me (32) DH (36) - Finding our way to baby #1
Me: POF/DOR - AMH <0.16, heterozygous c677t MTHFR, insulin resistant and gluten intolerant
DH: Severe MFI
12/2/11 - IUI #1- BFN
8/1/12 - IVF #1 - Zero response from max stims (600iu intramuscularly)
My ovaries are just for decoration
12/6/12 - Adopted five embryos that had been frozen for over ten years!
2/11/13 - DEmbryo FET #1 Thawed four, sadly two didn't survive. Transferred two beautiful blasts.
2/16/13 - First BFP of my life @ 6dp5dt! EDD 10/30/13
3/27/13 - After beta and u/s hell, no heartbeat ever detected. D&C at 9w1d.
6/5/13 - Adopted four new embryos that had been frozen for seven years!
9/12/13 - DEmbryo FET #2. Thawed and transferred two beautiful blasts
9/17/13 - BFP @ 5dp6dt! EDD 05/31/14
9/29/13 - m/c @ 5w1d.
11/19/13 - DEmbryo FET #3. Thawed and transferred one blast from each batch. Wow!
11/23/13 - BFP @ 4dp6dt! EDD 8/7/13
Beta #1 @ 13dp6dt - 522 Beta #2 @ 16dp6dt - 1373
6w5d ultrasound showed one perfect baby with a beautiful heartbeat of 134bpm!
Snowflake baby is a girl!
Our beautiful Snowflake girl arrived on July 22, 2014!
My embryo adoption blog: Wishing on a Snowflake
with DD I got a BFN at 11 DPO...I started spotting at 12 DPO and thought it was AF but after a few days of spotting and it was clear it wasn't AF, I tested again (this was at 16 DPO) I got a BFP. I also had bad AF-like cramps prior to the BFP (and after for awhile..) Does this help give you hope? GL!
ETA: implantation spotting (which is what I think I had) is rare, just keep that in mind
HPT accuracy DPO
10 dpo : 35%
11 dpo : 51%
12 dpo : 62%
13 dpo : 68%
14 dpo : 74%
15 dpo : 80%
16 dpo : 88%
17 dpo : 92%
18 dpo : 99%
DON?T TEST EARLY
TTC since 2010
lots of IUIs and 1 IVF all BFNs
FET currently on hold
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DS: 3/14/2010 Planned, PG first try
M/C 6/2012
DD: 4/22/2013 Planned, UnDx Infertility, PG on our own
BFP: 10/28/2016 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE!
M/C 12/12/2016
BFP: 10/27/2017 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE
EDD: 7/2/2018
This! There are a LOT of FF charts that don't get a + until 16, even 17DPO... I know because I too have kept hoping this would happen to me...
Severe MFI. Me: supposedly all clear but eggs showed vacuoles.
IVF #1 January 2012, ER Jan 14th: 34R, 27M, 23F. Day 3: 18 embies still strong. Day 5: zero "good," one "fair," the rest "poor." Transferred 3. None made it to blast or to freeze. Jan 28: BFN.
Lucky IVF #2: Transferred two beautiful day three embies on St. Patrick's Day. BFP on HPT 7dp3dt. Beta 1 (14dpER)=106; Beta 2 (16dpER)=140; Beta 3 (19dpER)=264! First u/s 4.17.
Hope is the thing with feathers - that perches in the soul - and sings the tune without the words - and never stops - at all - (Emily Dickinson)
Just curious where you got these stats? Doesn't it depend on the test? I read the directions on one yesterday that claimed 69% accuracy at 6 days before missed period.
As to the OP, I wasn't charting when I had my DS, but I think I tested around 12 DPO and got a BFN, then started spotting for two days. After that didn't turn into a real period, I tested again (I guess around 14 or 15 DPO) and it was positive. So definitely don't give up hope!
Thank you. And good luck to you, too! Keep me posted.