Would you block someone on FB who blocked you?

dana316

Does that even make sense?

I have a friend...well, we used to be friends, we haven't spent any real time together in years, and our lives are so totally different now...I guess we aren't really friends anymore.  Honestly, that's okay with me because we've grown into complete polar opposites.

She, for whatever reason, has me blocked on FB.  I can no longer see her wall or photos...but she can still see mine, and responds to my posts all the time.  I am so wanting to be a complete b!tch and block her from my wall and photos. 

WWSAIFD?  Be the bigger person and leave well enough alone...or return the blocking favor?

 

hannah&ben

LOL, um, yeah! Block city

wille2b

block em.. i just had the same thing happen and i blocked em!

NiniJ55

Return the blocking favor.  It's not about being the bigger person here.  Why should you be able to view and post on my page if I can not view or post on yours?  F*** that -- block her TODAY.

sliz

Friendship is a two-way street. I would block them.

nancy814

you could ask her why you can't view her page?  I did somethign weird with my settings and had a few people blocked. I didn't even realize it until they asked me in a message.

Mouseygail

i'd check and make sure that she just doesn't have incorrect settings for her wall...some people had issues when they changed settings...she may not even know.  but if she did block..yeah, i'd block back. 

JessandJeremy

I thought when someone blocked you, you can't see  theirs and they can't see yours. Its as if they don't existin facebook world. Am I wrong?

dana316

JessandJeremy:

I thought when someone blocked you, you can't see  theirs and they can't see yours. Its as if they don't existin facebook world. Am I wrong?

You can customize your privacy settings to block them from seeing certain parts of your FB page.  That's what she did...

 

AlissaCell701

OK this might be a stupid question but how do I know if you have been blocked??!!

Anyway, yes I would block her though, to answer your question!

schmoodle

Are you sure it's just you personally? I have several FB friends who just don't have a wall (or don't give friends permission to post there) and I know it's not just me (one is my cousin and she briefly changed settings and got like 8 wall posts about how they could now post on her wall). Some people do this to prevent the risk of people posting inappropriate things if they have work friends there, just for added privacy, etc. If that's not the case and it's definitely personal, block away!

Mrs.Reem

lol I'm guilty of doing this to some of my "friends" who I don't see often. When they friend me, I put them on my "limited exposure" list. That way I don't have to be a jerk and decline their friendship but they aren't all up in my business either. I'm somewhat picky about who sees my stuff. If I've been out with someone for a drink/BBQ, they get to see my wall. Closer nesties get to see my wall. Friends who I haven't talked to since Dinosaurs roamed the earth get "limited exposure-d."

I will say that occasionally something will go haywire and someone I didn't intend to put on the list, gets put there anyway. Maybe that's what happened to you. 

Either way... I'm a B* like that and I'd remove her viewing privileges just to see if she said something. Then I'd return the question.  

dana316

schmoodle:

Are you sure it's just you personally? I have several FB friends who just don't have a wall (or don't give friends permission to post there) and I know it's not just me (one is my cousin and she briefly changed settings and got like 8 wall posts about how they could now post on her wall). Some people do this to prevent the risk of people posting inappropriate things if they have work friends there, just for added privacy, etc. If that's not the case and it's definitely personal, block away!

I'm pretty sure its not just me.  I'm going to sign into my DH's FB page and look just to be sure...but it is strange, because I used to be able to look at her wall and pics and everything else...and then we had a disagreement over an article I posted, and that's when I stopped being able to see her stuff. 

I've blocked her from seeing my wall and my pics, so we'll see what happens.

 

Smudges*Mom

Do you really care if she sees (and comments)? I mean, if you were not peeved with her about limiting what you can see, would it be a problem? My take is that it takes energy to be upset with someone and to take steps to block or drop them. Let her hang. I would not respond to her comments on your page.

A couple of years ago, a former co-worker, who I was friends with on My Space, accidentally made things difficult for me at work, then she got all pissy. There was distance is our friendship, then her DH was moved (Army couple). I thought about dropping her, but decided that I didn't care enough. She did drop me, which made me laugh--she cared more about not liking me than I cared. It might be silly, but that's how I view it. (I could still see her page as it was public. Turns out she and her DH divorced shortly after moving and she decided that she was interested in men AND women. I kind of wonder what kind of train wreck her life is now. . . )

Another option would be to limit what she can see, like Reem does. I have a "friend" who made two comments about how many pictures I post of LO. So, he no longer has to see them as I've blocked him from viewing my photo albums!

WhiteysWifey

Block'em!

I just had to deal this with my sister's ex-boyfriend....he blocked me, and then I blocked him.

Spockles

This would = a DELETE for me. LOL!!! Then a block from being able to re-add me.