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past the point of misscarriage...

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While it goes with out saying that you are never safe and the outcome that we all want is not 100 % guaranteed ever. I have to say that today is emotional,

I am 20 weeks and past the point of miscarriage. It's been a lot more emotional that I thought it was going to be, thinking about my son who died at 17 weeks and a part of me has been waiting for this pregnancy to end in a late miscarriage and with each week that part has gotten smaller and now knowing that if I something where to happen to this baby it would be labeled as a still birth not a miscarriage is oddly comforting, only in the fact that I cannot lose this baby the same way that I lost my son. I can't have both my pregnancy end in a late miscarriage. 

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  • Eris-AlexisEris-Alexis
    ((Big HUGS)).  I can see how that would be strangely comforting.  Congratulations on hitting the 20 week milestone.  Keep growing LO!
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  • Junebug060609Junebug060609 member

    Congrats on reaching 20 weeks!  I can see how it would be comforting for you to cross this line.

     

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  • BobbiJanay07BobbiJanay07
    Keep growing lo, I can see how it could be comforting.
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  • rock-ellerock-elle member
    I agree with a PP how it could be comforting *hugs*
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  • haziedazehaziedaze member
    ((HUGE HUGS)) I can totally see what you're saying. I'm hoping this ends in a beautiful happy ending since that is clearly what you deserve!
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  • FmrAFBratFmrAFBrat member
    Congrats! That is great news.
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    BFP #1 10-11-10 ectopic discovered 10-22-10, 10-23-10 methotrexate & emergency surgery, lost right tube BFP #2 12-1-10 Found to be tissue dropped from salingectomy or missed heterotopic pregnancy from BFP #1 BFP #3 1-30-11 DS arrived on due date 10-10-11 BFP #4 Surprise 9-3-12 EDD 5-9-13 DS2 arrived 5-5-13 BFP #5 5-14-14 Emergency D&C 6-16-14 9 weeks
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  • Jordan1234Jordan1234
    Congrats on this milestone!  
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