I know during PTing you're not supposed to scold about having accidents. However, DD has been fully PTed for 5 months. She doesn't often have an accident, and if she does, it's usually just a couple drops and she stops herself and tells me she needs to go potty. But this afternoon she all-out emptied her bladder in her undies, just because she didn't tell me she needed to go. It infuriates me because I know she recognizes the sensation of needing to go, she just got lazy and didn't feel like stopping what she was doing to do it. I firmly (but not really angrily) told her that she needs to let me know if she needs to go to the bathroom, and not to do it in her undies. I wanted to get more upset with her but didn't know if there was a line I still shouldn't cross.
So WDYD when your well-trained kid has accidents?