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haleyw458
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Not ready for this
haleyw458
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X's pregnant booty call is having the baby tomorrow.
It's been 8 1/2 months since I found out and I'm still not prepared. It's not fair to DS at all. I felt sick just finding out she was going to be induced tomorrow, I have a feeling I'm going to break down when she actually has him. I'm really hoping nobody posts pictures on FB. I'm terrified that he's going to look like DS.
What's ironic about all of this...I got my first CS check today...which was filed the night I found out she was pregnant.
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Re: Not ready for this
Guarantee we will never get along. She's the one my ex cheated on me with. They never dated and he made it very clear he didn't have any feelings towards her, but she was always obsessed with him and she would take anything he gave her. She lied about being on birth control and got pregnant on purpose.
I had to block her and 7 of her friends because they were leaving notes on my car, calling and texting me, and sending me messages on facebook. She talks about me all the time to people and makes up a ton of stories. I can't even go out without having people ask me about it because she's friends with a lot of people that I am. I've lost a lot of friendships because of her since she found out she was pregnant.
X wants nothing to do with her. He actually had to get a restraining order on her because she was harrassing him (which I didn't know about until about 2 months ago). She's crazy.
I'm not going to hide the fact that DS has a brother from him, but at the same time I'm not going to encourage any relationship. If ex is in this child's life then that's fine, DS will grow up around him, but if not, I really don't care. It's really not my place to tell him, it's ex's.
Oh honey, I'm so sorry.
She sounds like a miserable woman.
((hugs))
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Beta #1: 4/1 - 51.5 Beta #2: 4/3 - 189 Beta #3: 4/6 - 778.9
AMH: 1.06 FSH: 10.7
DS: 11/2010 Clomid + HCG Trigger + IUI + Progesterone
((Hugs)) Sorry Haley :-(
"There comes a time in life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh, forget the bad, and focus on the good. So love the people who treat you right, pray for the ones who don't. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living."
Sorry Haley =(
((HUGS))
She sounds like a real winner... and I would be feeling the exact same way.
I have no idea. He says it isn't his but I don't believe him. He admits to them having sex, but says the last time was about 3 weeks before she says she got pregnant.
Apparently there was a night he stayed at a friends house, and this friend invited this girl and another girl over. She said they had sex, he said he was passed out and doesn't think they did. His friend backed up his story (of course) but so did her friend. So I really have no clue.
She definitely got around, but she was obsessed and wouldn't do anything to screw up her chances with him. She said she isn't going to go after child support from him, but I think this is because her plan will backfire when she asks for a paternity test.
Well now that I know all of that, I don't think I could trust myself to contain my up-chuck reflex when I even thought about it... I'm sorry. Hopefully the test is negative! *fingers crossed*
So sorry =0(
Know even though this was expected it must be difficult. Do something nice for yourself.