History: My SS is 9.5years old and my DH has had him overnight on Wed for about 9 years now.
So remember last week when BM text DH about an hour beforepick up to say they were away for a few day and could he take him another night. Well it was a holiday weekend and the onlyother night was the Friday as it was our weekend anyhow. That would mean I would collect SS on theFriday and take care of him on Sat as DH would be working. Anyhow DH did not even ask me as he knew Ihad plans so basically we just missed Wed night visitation.
Last night DH showed up to collect SS at his house. BM answered the door and acted totally confusedas to why DH was there. She told DH thatSS was at this friends house and she did not know when he would be back. She did invite DH in to wait for him. DH asked her to call SS so he could gocollect him at his friends house but she refused and again wanted him to comein and wait. He declined and leftwithout SS. BM told him he can make itup this weekend.
Now for those of you who do not know our story BM has beenpretty adamant for the past year or so that we give up our Wed night and takeSS every weekend. DH really doesnot mind one way or another but I am adamant that we do not. We would not be gaining any extra time BUT Iwould be responsible for taking care of SS as DH works Sat and I am not willingto do it.
So here we are at an impasse. Anyone got any advice? The court system in Ireland is very differentto US so that is not even an option.