advice?

jcthomas1281

I am soon to be a single mom of two beautiful babies! But between taking care of them, working nights and trying to catch up on things I don't see how I will ever have time to meet anyone ever again! Anyone have any advice?

TIA!

Starbuck5

Meeting someone new would be the furthest thing from my mind!

But I think you'll find time for yourself once you have an established routine when you're alone with your boys.....who are adorable by the way. 

Good luck.  

keychain01

It says you have 4 months before you are single? I don't know your backstory but its been my experience to take your time. Your babies are adorable, and at 9/10 months they need ALL of you!!! I only have one 10 month old, and I don't know how much hair would be on my head if I was single with TWO 9 month olds. Take.your.time.

BostonGayGal

Try just to be single for a while. There is no rush. In time, it will happen, but Enjoy singlehood first. Get back on your feet. Establish a routine. Realize that you don't NEED anyone- once you turn that corner you will feel desirable and be in a better position to make dating choices.

achase123

You will meet someone, but like PP said, it shouldn't be your priority right now.  Statistically speaking, odds are in your favor of meeting someone.  However, I am friends with a ton of single moms, and most of them are not in a relationship.  Especially with two, you are likely too busy to be thinking abou tthat right now. 

 I understand wondering because it's part of the fear of leaving one relationship, will I be doomed to be alone forever?  Will I ever meet someone?  Try not to let that be the driving force behind what you are doing.  If you know your relationship is over, and you've done all you can, it's time to end things and be a single parent.

jcthomas1281

thanks everyone, I just feel a little isolated right now I guess, I am no way interested in a relationship right now for many reasons, but friends would be nice and just getting out with people my own age.