Success after IF

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I had the vag cam and I am not dilated or bleeding. Hoping we can pull a miracle out here. My OB is consulting with perimatologists now. I was offered a D&E right away which I absolutely declined. We will be giving this baby every chance at life.
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  • I am praying for your miracle.

    Can they do an amnioinfusion?  I've read just a little about it...but it seems like a great idea for women who are candidates for it...

    Hang in there, Mama...

     

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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this. I'm hoping there is something they can do to keep the little one in longer.
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  • Sending thoughts and prayers your way.
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  • I am so sorry you are going through this. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

  • I'm so sorry that you are going through this.  I will keep you in my prayers that you get the miracle that you are hoping for.  You are all in my thoughts. 
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  • you know, this group of women (and our kids) have gone through some pretty extraordinary things, and lil' Q is no exception to this.  You tell that kid to SIT TIGHT, for that fluid to fill back up, and for things to get BACK TO BORING really quick and stay that way.

    We insist ;-)

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  • GL!  Crossing fingers for your miracle.
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  • You hang in there. This is going to work out. I am so sorry you are dealing with this now. Thinking of you and your family.
  • Hang in there mama! You know you've got SO MANY thoughts and prayers coming from this group.
  • I cannot believe they suggested a D&E????

    I am so, so sorry you are dealing with this :( We are praying so hard for you!!

     

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  • No amnio infusion because I have previa. Who said boys are easier than girls? Catholic ladies-we are praying to St Therese for a miracle. She pulled my Carly through when she needed it. And his name is Quincy-the name Betsy calls him.
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  • Wow.  I've been thinking of you bunches -- thank you for the update, and I'll continue to send you my strongest prayers.
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    you know, this group of women (and our kids) have gone through some pretty extraordinary things, and lil' Q is no exception to this.  You tell that kid to SIT TIGHT, for that fluid to fill back up, and for things to get BACK TO BORING really quick and stay that way.

    We insist ;-)

    This!!!!  we have seen some pretty extraordinary things happen on this board and you are goign to have one of those amazing stories to tell soon.  Just tell that little man to get comfy b/c he is not allowed to leave yet! I am thinking and praying for you.

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  • More prayers for your miracle. Hang in there.
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  • More prayers coming for you, Quincy, and the rest of your family...    

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  • I am just coming online today and I am really hoping and praying for your LO. It is good that you are not dilated or bleeding. Many T&P coming your way.
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  • Amy I am planning on you pulling this miracle off. I will be thinking nothing but positive thoughts as you go through this. You are a strong woman and your kids are strong kids. This has to be rough after just moving thousands of miles away. I'm dumping boat loads of good vibes in your direction. Big big hugs!!!
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  • oh my gosh I am so sorry! I am praying for a huge miracle! So hard!
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  • Amy, our family is praying for you and Quincy. I cannot imagine how scared you must be. Stay strong, mama...(((HUGS)))
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  • that's great that there is no dilation or bleeding. sending all my prayers for your little one to stay exactly where he is and keep growing.
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  • Why did they suggest the d&e if you aren't even dilated?!?! Your fluids can replenish, so tell those drs that you're keeping your legs crossed and that you want lots of fluids! Lots and lots of prayers bing said for you and your sweet boy!
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  • So many prayers for you and Quincy.  Thank you for updating -- you've been on my mind constantly.
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  • Thoughts and prayers for you.  I can't imagine how scared you are right now.
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    No amnio infusion because I have previa. Who said boys are easier than girls? Catholic ladies-we are praying to St Therese for a miracle. She pulled my Carly through when she needed it. And his name is Quincy-the name Betsy calls him.

     

     

    praying to St. Therese right now....praying for that miracle  

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  • Prayers for you and baby Quincy.  (((HUGS)))
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  • ALL THE BEST TO YOU - sending fervent hopes that the fluid replenishes and baby's amniotic sac heals and you pull this OFF - hang in there!!!!
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  • Stay strong and big hugs!
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  • Sending thoughts and prayers...
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  • Thinking of you and baby Quincy.       
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  • I said a prayer after I read your first post and I will be doing so once again. Stay inside, little baby!
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  • Praying for you.
  • dup, sorry


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  • I'm' sorry you're going through this.

    You and your family are in my thoughts. 


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  • Just now logging in and catching up. I am SO sorry you are going through this. You and little Q are in my thoughts and I am wishing for the best.

    I don't know if they've determined how much fluid you lost (and I apologize if one of your posts specified and I'm not remembering), but there is a bumpie I know (and pretty prolific blogger) who was losing fluid around this same point in pregnancy with her twins several years ago, and they made it many, many more weeks and are now healthy toddlers. I don't know how parallel her story is, but I know that she was on bedrest a very long time and drinking a ton to replenish lost amniotic fluid. Her blog is nbjenni.blogspot.com, here is a post from right after she went to the hospital: https://nbjenni.blogspot.com/2008/06/update_20.html. I apologize if hearing/reading this makes things harder but just in case it was helpful I wanted you to have some hope and perhaps if your stories are similar you could reach out to her and find out exactly what happened and how they were able to keep her little ones baking so long. Or let me know if you would like me to contact her, I also know how to find her on FB and can do so ASAP if you'd like.

    Much love and thinking of you guys.

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  • Praying for you guys.
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  • I am just lurking for the first time today, but I am sending lots of good, stay put vibes to your little guy!  I am so sorry you guys are going through this :(
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  • How scary for you! Thankful you arent dilated/bleeding...one thing at a time i guess? I'm shocked ( and disgusted ) they offered you a d&e. Way to hang in there, praying now.
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