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Today's update (I was right)

lhcooperlhcooper member
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So, HCG test results from today: 252, down a full 500 points from Thursday's 752.  I was not at all surprised -- I would have been more than completely shocked if it had been anything different.  If anything, I feel relieved to know that what has been happening is almost over.  When I told the nurse I spoke with my new theory, that last week's heavy "period" was actually a m/c, she said that could indeed explain both the low first beta and the very dramatic drop in only two days.

I am surprisingly ok -- I guess because it wasn't like I got a BFP and then got to think I was pregnant for over a week before this happened.  It was more that it was just all so sudden and so bizarre and scary.  Thanks to everyone for being so kind and supportive -- it has really helped. I've already emailed my new RE updating her on the drama and asking for her advice on whether we proceed with IVF as planned as of my next period, or if she'd want me to wait for two cycles.  So I'm moving on.  And DH is here for the weekend.  Smile

me - 41 (dx: DOR); DH - 53 (no problems); 7/18/09 - married!; 8/4/09 - BFP on first (real)try; 9/14/09 - missed m/c; 9/15/09 - d&c; 11/09 - 3/10 - 4 natural cycles = BFN; 4/10 - dx hyperthyroidism caused by Graves' disease; 6/10 - thyroidectomy; 7/10 - 12/10 - 1 natural and 5 medicated IUI cycles = BFN; 1/11 - new RE; dx low ovarian reserve (AMH .42; 1/26/11 -- BFP (ectopic) from IUI #6; methotrexate 2/10/11; 6/2/11 - IVF #1 = BFN; 9/12/11 - prescreening for DE; 9/15/11 - IUI #7 (unmedicated)= BFN; 11/8 - begin DE cycle (shared risk program); 12/5 - ER (5 eggs/4 mature/3 fertilized/2 left by day 5) 12/10 - ET of one 1BB blast (expanded, "fair" quality), none to freeze; 12/22 - totally shocked by +hpt; beta #1 = 413; #2 = 3952 2/14 - CVS reveals a healthy baby girl! EDD: 8/27/12 DD born 8/31/12, 10 lbs 10 oz and perfect in every way. 
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  • 10-4LilBuddy10-4LilBuddy member
    I'm so sorry honey. Enjoy your weekend with your hubby. ((hugs))
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  • Mrs.McIrishMrs.McIrish member
    I'm glad to hear you are doing "ok".  What a crazy few weeks for you.  Come back and post if you need us. I hope you can have some good quality time with DH. Hugs:-)

    TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
    DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
    5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
    OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
    DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
    DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
    CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
    DE IVF #3 1/14  ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d

    DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
    First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!

    K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days

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  • shyntrueshyntrue
    <<Big Hugs>>  I'm glad YH is home with you now.
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  • MrsJordanalmondMrsJordanalmond member
    yikes ... not a pleasant ride.  i'm sorry for what you have been through ... but the good news is you can get pg!!!
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  • UOduckBride2beUOduckBride2be member
    Crap!  Not much else to say.  It just sucks. Take Care!
    Me: 37 DH: 43 Married 9/2004 TTC since 9/2005 CP Dec 2006 MC June 2008 at 6 weeks MC April 2010 at 9 weeks 50 clomid+IUI 11/2010=BFN 50 clomid+IUI 12/2010=BFP MC Feb 2011 at 7 weeks 8/11 CD3 AFC=24,FSH=6.91,AMH=5.6,E2=47.9, TSH=1.27,8/26 12DPO BFP Alistair Charles "Charlie" was born 5/7 weighing 8lbs, 10oz and 22" was long imageimageimageimage
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  • gcc16gcc16
    I'm so sorry.  What a rollercoaster ride.  I'm glad that you & DH are together this weekend.  Take good care. 
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  • KZ2010KZ2010
    Oh no.  I'm so sorry for your loss.  Please take good care of yourself.
    m/c at 6 wks 2002
    Endometriosis, s/p lap 2009
    Behcet's disease, s/p partial vulvectomy 2010
    Started bromocriptine to lower prolactin level 2010
    Clear HSG 11/2010 :)
    DH morphology = 4, rest of SA looked good 01/2011
    02/2011 First Clomid 50mg cycle
    BFP 03/02/2011
    No heartbeat at 10w5d 04/18/2011; D&C 04/23/2011
    07/2011 Second Clomid 50mg cycle, BFN
    08/2011 Third Clomid 50mg cycle, BFN
    10/2011 First Clomid 100mg cycle with Ovidrel trigger = BFN
    11/2011 Second Clomid 100mg cycle with Ovidrel trigger = BFN
    12/2011 Third Clomid 100mg cycle with Ovidrel trigger = BFFN
    01/2012 Fourth Clomid 100mg cycle with Ovidrel trigger = ?
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  • happywifemomofonehappywifemomofone member

    So glad to hear that you are taking things in stride....even when the outcome is not as you wish.  Thinking of you.  Take good care of yourself-glad that DH can be home with you.

    TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome
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  • baze2baze2

    Oh I am soo sorry for this news. I really had personal hope that this was it for yoU! Dang it..I was hoping everything was over stated..because of emotions etc. My heart breaks for you!  We are here for you! 

    I am glad that DH will be here for you! I can't comprehend (SP) as I have never been there but my hear still breaks for you~

    (HUGS) TO YOU AND YOUR DH!!!

     

     

    "Onward"--CathyMD Waiting since 07/5/2011 for our forever child! Yep we are adopting!
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  • MelleTXMelleTX member
    So sorry you are having to go through this. I am glad your hubby is home with you. have a nice relaxing weekend.
    Single Mother by Choice. Life didn't work out the way I planned so I did it on my own. IUI #s 1-3, unmedicated = BFN, IUI #s 4-6, 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel = BFN IVF #1: 23R, 20M, 17F. 5 day transfer 2 blasts. 2 Snowbabies BFP 6dp5dt, Beta #1 7dp5dt = 58, Beta #2 9dp5dt = 114, Beta #3 10dp5dt = 187 1st Ultrasound = 5/3, not much to see yet. 2nd Ultrasound = 5/17, TWINS!!! Hospital Bed Rest at 32 weeks due to pre-ecclampsia and severe edema. Audrey Grace, 5lbs9oz, & Lydia Louise, 6lbs, born via emergency c-section on 12/6/12 at 36w1d My IVF Journey
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  • boymamacoboymamaco member
    Sending you lots of hugs! So sorry! Enjoy the weekend with DH.
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  • oceanangelbeautyoceanangelbeauty
    Hugs and good luck with what's next!
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  • Haribo1Haribo1
    I am sorry.  {{{HUGS}}}
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  • CityPixieCityPixie

    I'm sorry.  Sounds like you've got your eyes on the future and that is good.  Onward!

    -Pix

    About me: A pixie in the city, 41, TTC #1 since May 2010, married 18 years. Diagnosed with, surgically removed, endometrioma Aug.2010 Sept 2010 IUI #1=BFN, Oct=cyst/bfn, Nov 2010 IUI #2 = bfn. Had to postpone IUI #3 b/c of a cyst natural=BFN. Skipped IUI #3, decided to go for IVF. Found/removed uterine polyps Jan 2011. IVF cancelled, no follicles. IVF #2: 3 great embies put in on Easter Sunday = BFN. Hoping for another chance at IVF in July. TTC is NOT for wimps. http://www.fertilityfriend.com/ticker/2fab90/ttc.png
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  • Tinkerbellmom37Tinkerbellmom37

    I've been trying again for awhile. This last cycle I was two days late and I didn't even have time to take a test. I started spotting just old blood first but when I got tightening and the sharpest cramps I've ever had and huge clots. The heaviness of it would have been some what normal had my periods been 45 days apart like they used to be. But they are now 32 days apart and my last two cycles have not been even close to what I was feeling and the pain I was in. I knew that I was having a miscarriage since I've had two in my life time. This one was early so the pain didn't last as many days as my last two. On the upside to this story is that after trying almost 4 years and using fertilaid for me and my husband and motility booster for 4 months and hubby having two surgeries over the past 3 years. It's a ray of hope that his infertility has improved. He get's tested this week to make sure and if it has we may at least have a chance for IUI since we can not afford ivf with 3 children already.

    My other 3 are boys 17,14 and 12  so we are starting all over again by the grace of God we will achieve more children.

    I pray for those of you who are just having your first. I feel bad enough not concieving my 4th after 12 years from my last child to think you are all trying for your first and struggling my heart go's out to you. I feel selfish at times for wanting more when others have none. But my heart has always wanted more and God touched my husbands heart and here we are. Baby dust to you all.

    Remember all God has perfect timing.. ;-)

    God bless.

    MJ

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