I'm an only child (and I swear I'm not a monster, Biddy!) and so is DH. At this rate, we will consider ourselves beyond lucky and blessed to have one healthy take home baby. But if we could get to 2, I'd be happier. I loved being an only child, but as I get older and my parents age...I wish I had someone to relate to, share memories with and help with my parents when they need it.
BFP #1 5/2010 - Missed m/c at 8 weeks BFP #2 2/2011 Baby G welcomed with love and relief 10/2011 Surprise BFP 1/8/2013...say what? Baby A arrived 9/2013
I always wanted 5, but then DH had me talked down to 3. Now we have neighbors with 5 kids all within a year of each other. When I watch the magnificent chaos while they all play outside in the summer, I want 5 again BUT like PPs mentioned, I will be happy with even one.
TTC in May 2009. M/C July 2009. BFP #2 6/1/11(1st cycle on Clomid) Norah Lynn was born on 2/3/2012 TTC again January 2014
I'd love to have a bunch, but I don't want to have them too late in life so 3 is practical and 4 is a real stretch. If I had twins next, we'd probably call it end game.
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I used to say 4, but I think financially it will wind up being closer to 2..and then maybe we will think about more a few years down the road...at this point I just want to get one and go from there...
Re: How many kids do you want to have?
BFP #1 5/2010 - Missed m/c at 8 weeks
BFP #2 2/2011
Baby G welcomed with love and relief 10/2011
Surprise BFP 1/8/2013...say what? Baby A arrived 9/2013
Motherhood is not for wimps
M/C July 2009.
BFP #2 6/1/11(1st cycle on Clomid)
Norah Lynn was born on 2/3/2012
TTC again January 2014
Same here.
ditto this..
BFP 1 4/2010 M/C 5/1/2010 8w2d EDD 12/10/10 BFP 2 5/5/2011 C/P?? 5/14/2011 5w2d EDD 01/12/12 BFP 3 3/12/2012 EDD 11/23/12 Ultrasound 4/11/12 H/B 160bpm! It's a GIRL!
Jenn
IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN
Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10
BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11
Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11
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