What methods have you tried? I know you mentioned Ferber before but I don't know if you stuck with it. I think no matter what you do, you need 110% consistence. If you want him to fall asleep on his own, do not give him any other option. If he's starting to fall asleep in your arms, put him down - it might take 100 tries but you just need to be more stubborn than him.
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We do Ferber but got messed up with sickness and ear infections. Literally one night off schedule and he goes back to waking four or five times a night. So frustrating.
Re: Trying to get LO to fall asleep on his own
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