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Update :(

The gestational sac grew, but there was still nothing in it.

We looked at my dates, and there is really no chance I conceived later than the O date FF gave me, unless it was two days later, because we stopped having intercourse. Two days later would have given me a BFP at 7 dpo, which makes it even less likely.

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/27d3b8

So the argument that I may not be as far along as I think I am just isn't really valid in my opinion. 

She used a fancier ultrasound machine today and did both transvaginal and transabdominal. The sac is clearly there, and clearly larger, but clearly empty.

We agreed to wait one week and rescan next Thursday, same time. She prepped me with my options after that, D&C, the miscarriage drug, or waiting for it to naturally happen.

I have a lot to think about. Thanks everyone for the good thoughts. I don't have much hope at this point. I would just like this journey to be over.

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    my heart just sank.  I am so sorry boxer.
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    ::snuggles boxer:; I'm sorry that you're going through this nightmare.
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    Oh Boxer, I wish I could hug you in real life. I'm so sorry that this isn't what you were hoping for. I'm so angry that there isn't anything in the sac. I wish I could make it different or better. I'm still praying hard for things to change this week. I wish I could make this better for you. (((HUGS))))
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    :( So sorry.
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    I'm so sorry.
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    I'm so sorry Boxer. Left Hug
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    oh sweetie, huge hugs
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    I'm so sorry.
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    huge ((hugs)) I'm so so sorry you are going through this.
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    Boxer I am so sorry.  I know there really aren't words to take your pain away but I wish this wasn't happening.  If you need anything at all, please don't hesitate to PM me.  ((hugs))
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    Oh Boxer, I wish I could hug you in real life. I'm so sorry that this isn't what you were hoping for. I'm so angry that there isn't anything in the sac. I wish I could make it different or better. I'm still praying hard for things to change this week. I wish I could make this better for you. (((HUGS))))
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    Oh Boxer, I wish I could hug you in real life. I'm so sorry that this isn't what you were hoping for. I'm so angry that there isn't anything in the sac. I wish I could make it different or better. I'm still praying hard for things to change this week. I wish I could make this better for you. (((HUGS))))

    This exactly, sweetie. I am praying so hard for a miracle for you.

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    I'm so sorry.
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    I'm so sorry
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    I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this.

    ETA: I deleted what I said. The more I think about it the more I think it isn't something I should share.
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    My heart just broke for you.  You are still in my prayers.
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    I am so sorry, Boxer.
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    Boxer, I'm so sorry. I hope you get resolution soon. ((hugs))
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    Oh boxer, I am so sorry! ((hugs))
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    I'm so sorry love. I'm going to keep up the good thoughts just in case the Universe decides to listen to me for once.
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    im so sorry boxer. (((hugs)))
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    I'm so very sorry, Boxer. Left Hug
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    I am SO sorry to hear this.  You guys are in my T's&P's.  (((hugs)))
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    I'm sorry boxer. 
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    imageAmorlinda:

    I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this.

    ETA: I deleted what I said. The more I think about it the more I think it isn't something I should share.

    I read it, and I do appreciate it. Good news in a negative situation is always something to hold onto. I'm just honestly tired of hope at this point. Hope is draining me to my core, especially when it most likely won't be good news in the end. It's almost as if I prepare for the worse, and go through the grieving now, then I can be ready for that news next Thursday. And if it ended up being a miracle, then there's always time to celebrate.

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    ::big hugs::  I'm so sorry, honey!
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    I am very sorry Boxer, I was hoping you would get better news
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    I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this.

    ETA: I deleted what I said. The more I think about it the more I think it isn't something I should share.

    I read it, and I do appreciate it. Good news in a negative situation is always something to hold onto. I'm just honestly tired of hope at this point. Hope is draining me to my core, especially when it most likely won't be good news in the end. It's almost as if I prepare for the worse, and go through the grieving now, then I can be ready for that news next Thursday. And if it ended up being a miracle, then there's always time to celebrate.

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    I'll keep you in my prayers. 

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    Sorry boxer.  :(
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    I'm so sorry, boxer.
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    I'm so sorry Boxer. ::hugs::
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    ((hugehugs))

    I'm so sorry.

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    I am so very sorry.


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    I'm very sorry, boxer :(
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    I am so sorry, you are in my thoughts.
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    I am so sorry Boxer.
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    I'm sorry.
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    I am so so so sorry. We were all really hopping for a better outcome.
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