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LM2003

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

MJS0902

If it was a really close friend I would go, but since it doesn't seem like it is, I would stay home.  I would ask DH to stay home too, but if he wanted to go I would just let him, to me one night out isn't worth a big argument and I know if my DH wanted to go he would put up an argument if I told him he couldn't.

AmandaHearn

We don't drink at all anymore, but if we did, I would saying drinking without your spouse is a no-no.  It's just asking for problems.  It leaves the door open for resentment (him going, you being stuck home alone), him being upset that you wouldn't come, his friends complaining that you wouldn't come (maybe not to his face), so on and so forth.

We're really not much for 'going out' anyhow, so maybe I have no room to talk of this, but it doesn't sound like a good idea to me.

BTW, no one should have to tell their husbands what to do, he should do the right thing after having an adult conversation.    If not, live with it, you married him knowing that about him.  This is a general comment, not directed at you or anyone else.

Tess12

It doesn't sound like you want to go at all, so you shouldn't go. 

I would say let your husband go if he wants to, but have a Conversation first.  One in which you explain all the reasons why you'd prefer if he didn't and ask for something in return (ie that he does baby duty the next day and gives you a break, or that he participate in a fun family outing to make up for the time he's gone, or says no to the next non-family social event or something similar). 

The only thing is if he goes and agrees to do something for you in return, you can't say anything about him going except, "have a good time, honey."  No bitter asides or anything. 

MKBelz

I think it's important to be upfront with him about your feelings.  Plus as parents we have to keep in mind that even though its important for us to have adult social time, we have to be smart about how we spend that time.  I'm a firm believer in sacrificing those drinking partying nights because I feel irresponsible for my DD even when she's overnight somewhere etc...
Call me an old lady, but I think you're right in the way you're feeling, and that avoiding situations like that party are the best option for you both!

mlc92404

Im right there with you, I'd feel the same way!!!  I would do one of two things, either not go (hoping that DH won't be a baby and *** about it) or let DH go, be pissy about it, but try to have a night to myself with DS and try to have some fun ourselves. 

Daisy77

I'd stay home and ask DH to as well.  Truth is, he probably wouldn't put up a fight anyway.  He likes party and hang with friends, but he'd feel bad leaving me at home, pg and alone, while he whooped it up without me.  And if he had done things on his own previously like you mentioned your DH has done, I don't think you'd be asking too much to stay with you and do something together.  While I can't tell DH what he can and can't do, I do expect him to think of my feelings when these situations arise and he's been pretty good with it so far:) 

eaglesfan700

I most definitely would not be going if I were you (certainly does not sound like a good time for a pg woman, especially the "sleep wherever" part!)

But I would not mind at all if DH went.  Our situation is a little reversed in that I go out more often with my friends than he does.  Since clearly you do mind, I would tell him how you feel and try to come up with some sort of compromise (maybe he goes but doesn't stay over etc).

GL!

femmeftle9

It sounds like your DH has been going out a lot. Since it doesn't seem like the type of gathering you don't care to be at (for obvious reasons), I would ask him to stay home with you. Just say that you would like to spend some time with him at home... That's not an unreasonable request and he should respect your feelings.

beb4beb

Maybe you could just "accidentally" forget about the party and schedule something else fun that the 3 of you could do together instead.  Or if all else fails, tell him he looks good in whatever he is dressed in for the party and use the powers of seduction to keep him at home.

Mc_Newlywed

P-n-B can get loud and rowdy. And if you're not into it you'll be miserable. Plus the "sleep whenever" attitude bothers me. When I was pregnant I needed loads of sleep to keep from feeling I'll. If it were me, I'd stay home. DH could do whatever he wanted.

Madringal

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SuperCuteBenz

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

SuperCuteBenz:

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

SuperCuteBenz:

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

SuperCuteBenz:

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

SuperCuteBenz:

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

SuperCuteBenz:

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

SuperCuteBenz:

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

SuperCuteBenz:

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

SuperCuteBenz:

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

SuperCuteBenz:

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

SuperCuteBenz:

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

SuperCuteBenz:

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

SuperCuteBenz:

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

SuperCuteBenz:

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

SuperCuteBenz:

SuperCuteBenz:

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

SuperCuteBenz:

SuperCuteBenz:

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

SuperCuteBenz:

SuperCuteBenz:

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested

SuperCuteBenz

SuperCuteBenz:

SuperCuteBenz:

LM2003:

Okay so next weekend is the 30th birthday party of a friend.  Now this is the gf of one of dh's friends, by no means a best friend or great friend.  A friend that we see right now maybe twice a month.

This birthday party is at put in bay (a huge party spot if you don't know).  And it will be a big drinkfest (obviously).  Also, if attended, you'll pretty much have to stay the night b/c it doesn't start until 6 (by the way it's an island)....

I really have no desire to go 1) becuase i'm pg and can't drink and that's what everyone will be doing 2) I will have to leave dd overnight 3) see number one, what the hell am I going to do when I want to go to bed at 11 and everyone will be out until 2-3 in the morning?!?!?!? Oh and the plan is to just "sleep wherever"

Now here is the hormonal b!tchy part.  I don't think dh should go either....for one he's been doing all kinds of stuff recently by himself.  Went on a conoeing/cabin trip last weekend for 2 nights, took 1/2 friday to go boating and skiing with some co-workers etc upon many other things recently.  I don't think it's fair that he can just take off and go have fun while leaving me at home, i've talked to him about this. 

So should I just go? Let dh go by himself? or insist neither of us go?

Oh and you can save your breath it if some of you want to reply--- I don't tell my dh what he can and can't do, i'm not interested