watch too many episodes of Baby Story on TLC, especially not in a row. I watched an episode of a natural birth, and starting having sympathy anxiety for the woman in labor. All I have to say, is it kind of makes me scared ****less. And of course, I cried when the lady finally gave her last push for her little girl. I was all ready to watch another episode airing right after, but realized I probably had enough for one day.
Re: Do yourself a favor, don't...
I watched that just now also. i will say, that she wasn't helping herself at all by getting riled up and crying (I had a meds-free birth with DS). That's the worst thing you can do, since it jacks up your breathing.
Her husband was acting like a douche at the beginning. I love it when the MEN are saying "no epidurals!". Easy to say when you just stand by the bed....
I was really shocked that she held out so long because her husband didn't want the epidural-last time I checked he wasn't the one pushing.
A lot of women tend to think that they have "failed" if you set out for a natural birth, but then need or want the meds, so they resist using them. Sometimes though (like in this woman's case) you just need a break and sometimes the epidural will help with that.
funny it seems were we all watching today, lol!