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um WTF?!?!

I have this "friend". We used to be roomates and really close. We had a falling out a few years ago because of her asshat BF. We started talking a little over a year ago and have hung out a few times. Her life is pretty much a hot mess. We usually only talk about her. She seems to have a lot of drama and my life is pretty boring (in a good way). She can be very self centered but she also does have legitimate memory loss due to epilepsy that went untreated for years.

She sent me a text asking if DH like his special chirstmas present. When I got my BFP I was planning of DS2 givng DH a picture of himself wearing a big brother t-shirt. I suck at secrets and told DH about my BFP the next day. It's a good thing too because I miscarried on the 21st. DH called everyone we had told when we were still at the ER. I heard him tell her about losing our baby so she was informed.

 I thought she may have just forgotten about him calling her so I sent a text explaining what had happed. I'll cut her some slack there. Her next text message was very similar to an "am I pregnant" post. No "I'm sorry" or "How r u doing".  Her getting pregnant again would be a total disaster for soooo many reason. Way too much to explain but like I said her life is a hot mess.

I didn't respond. A few min later got a text asking if she said something wrong. I didn't answer. A few min after that got another text with more possibly PG symptoms asking what I thought.

 Um WTF? I'd like to send a text saying "fvck you".

P.S. While typing this post I've gotten 2 more texts with reasons what she thinks she might be KU. None of them involve POAS.

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Re: um WTF?!?!

  • Take a picture of this with your phone and send it to her.

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  • I love you, BabyTrippin.

    Maybe this cat can help her see if her boobs hurt:

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    ;) Anyway, she's dumb and don't let her get to you...*big big hugs* Some people just don't get it. 

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    Take a picture of this with your phone and send it to her.

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  • imageBabyTrippin:

    Take a picture of this with your phone and send it to her.

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    Love it!

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  • imageBabyTrippin:

    Take a picture of this with your phone and send it to her.

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    This! And I'd send her a pic of an upraised middle finger. 

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  • Asshat is really an under-used expression and I love it!  This or Jackwagon would be a great word to use for her!  Seriously, some friends will never be able to grasp the idea of a two sided relationship!  I'm sorry she reacted that way! 
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