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Dh's aunt just had #9 or #10

We got a message last night from a cousin that one of DH's aunts just had baby #9 or #10, we can't remember how many they have Indifferent  Even Dh is jumping on the bitterness train for this one.  The dad's job is in serious peril, the company he works for is losing money and has been cutting everyone's wages and hours for the last year. (We know this because BIL is part-owner). Urgh.
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Re: Dh's aunt just had #9 or #10

  • That is completely unfair!!!!!
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  • Good one, universe, good one.

    I'm sorry Kristy.


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  • Oh wow!!  I don't begrudge anyone a big family, but that is a hard one to swallow for sure.  Life just seems completely unfair sometimes.  ((hugs))
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  • imagecutebride73:
    Oh wow!!  I don't begrudge anyone a big family, but that is a hard one to swallow for sure.  Life just seems completely unfair sometimes.  ((hugs))

    This. 9 or 10 when some of us can't even have one??! 

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    imagecutebride73:
    Oh wow!!  I don't begrudge anyone a big family, but that is a hard one to swallow for sure.  Life just seems completely unfair sometimes.  ((hugs))

    This. 9 or 10 when some of us can't even have one??! 

    This and This...so unfair.  Sorry girl!!!

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  • Wow.  I'm sorry, Kristy.  That is so unfair Crying
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  • ((hugs)) so sorry, it's just so unfair.

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  • Indifferent indeed.
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  • Yikes.  That is so not fair!  I'm sorry.  Sad  ((hugs))
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