s/o messy

Halo79RN

I always feel like if someone drops by and the house is cluttered or if the kids go to school in mix matched clothing people judge me, not dh... he thinks no one thinks anything of it.  [Poll]

Bellisimo

I feel the same way!  When MH is off work and home, he leaves crap in a disarray all over this house.  The thought of someone dropping by and ringing my doorbell makes me cringe!  He thinks nobody would care!  I think they'd think, "D@mn woman!  What do you do all day??"  And I'm on top of keeping the kids clean and dressed appropriately.  He'll take them out in public in their pj's, hair all a mess and having not brushed their teeth!  And thinks nothing of it.

jessicaclare

I can practically guarantee that if I took my kids out in mismatched clothing with dirty faces and messy hair, people would be thinking "WTF". If DH did it? It would be "Awww, look at that Dad that got his kids dressed and took them out"