I am so confused...my heart breaks for them. I can't believe this has happened.
me too.
Of course she needs ALL our prayers and love.
But, I was thinking about a necklace with his birthstone on it might be special.
I am just heartbroken for them.
Has anyone heard what happened yet? It all seems so sudden! She posted a picture of him some time yesterday and then the loss messages started. I assume what ever happened, happened last night or afternoon???
I am just trying to process it all. I can't imagine how they feel right now. Many prayers go out to them.
When a girl on PgAL lost her daughter, we sent food, a spa basket, and made a group donation to March of Dimes. There are also a few organizations that support parents who have lost children. I'll see if I can find the posts that list those.
When a girl on PgAL lost her daughter, we sent food, a spa basket, and made a group donation to March of Dimes. There are also a few organizations that support parents who have lost children. I'll see if I can find the posts that list those.
That sounds great too Liz.
I have a friend who works at the local jewelers here, I'll ask if she has suggestions (she has a baby too so I'm sure she'd be touched as well)
I can't stop my eyes from watering. and my stomach and heart ache.
Yes, I am willing to do what ever. I can't imagine what they are going through. God has a plan for us all but sometimes we struggle with wanting to know why.
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I would be willing to take the basket, necklace, whatever to her if you all would like. I know she lives very close to me. I am not exactly sure where but I know its within 5 mins.
OR, A few of us from HSV could deliver it to her together, unless that would be too much. Thoughts? Or maybe mail would just be best to give her time?
I would be willing to take the basket, necklace, whatever to her if you all would like. I know she lives very close to me. I am not exactly sure where but I know its within 5 mins.
OR, A few of us from HSV could deliver it to her together, unless that would be too much. Thoughts? Or maybe mail would just be best to give her time?
I think if it were me, I'd give her a little time.
I've emailed my friend (and I'll see her tomorrow night at my supper club) about a necklace. I even thought a cross pendant with his birthstones would be nice. He was born in May so it would be emeralds. I'll let y'all know.
I like Liz's idea so we could do a combo if y'all want.
My mom is putting them on their church prayer list and I'm praying hard.
I would be willing to take the basket, necklace, whatever to her if you all would like. I know she lives very close to me. I am not exactly sure where but I know its within 5 mins.
OR, A few of us from HSV could deliver it to her together, unless that would be too much. Thoughts? Or maybe mail would just be best to give her time?
I think if it were me, I'd give her a little time.
I've emailed my friend (and I'll see her tomorrow night at my supper club) about a necklace. I even thought a cross pendant with his birthstones would be nice. He was born in May so it would be emeralds. I'll let y'all know.
I like Liz's idea so we could do a combo if y'all want.
My mom is putting them on their church prayer list and I'm praying hard.
Oh yea! I didn't mean today or even tomorrow. I know she needs time. I was just throwing it out there that when we were ready to send her something I could deliver it. It was just a thought. But like I said, it might be better just to mail it...
I would be willing to take the basket, necklace, whatever to her if you all would like. I know she lives very close to me. I am not exactly sure where but I know its within 5 mins.
OR, A few of us from HSV could deliver it to her together, unless that would be too much. Thoughts? Or maybe mail would just be best to give her time?
I think if it were me, I'd give her a little time.
I've emailed my friend (and I'll see her tomorrow night at my supper club) about a necklace. I even thought a cross pendant with his birthstones would be nice. He was born in May so it would be emeralds. I'll let y'all know.
I like Liz's idea so we could do a combo if y'all want.
My mom is putting them on their church prayer list and I'm praying hard.
Oh yea! I didn't mean today or even tomorrow. I know she needs time. I was just throwing it out there that when we were ready to send her something I could deliver it. It was just a thought. But like I said, it might be better just to mail it...
oh totally knew what you meant. yeah, everyone handles these things differently. After some time she may want y'all to visit. If I could get up there I would too!!!
maybe we could reach out to her after a couple of days and see what she's up for.
My personal fav is either the butterfly or footprints. And then maybe some restaurant g/c's that they can use when they don't feel like cooking or eating at home. I'm happy to take the collection and place the order.
I am totally devastated by this!!!! I would love to help do something for Tiffany! I would also like to go and deliver it if you do that Lindsey! She works at the same office as my husband and I'm just so sad for her!! I definitely have a heavy heart this morning!
My personal fav is either the butterfly or footprints. And then maybe some restaurant g/c's that they can use when they don't feel like cooking or eating at home. I'm happy to take the collection and place the order.
Those are beautiful! I will be glad to contribute.
I'm devastated. Absolutely devastated. I LOVED her pictures of him everyday and looked forward to them so much because he was just a precious little guy. I'm not able to get on here much anymore, but I will be more than willing to help in any way.
My personal fav is either the butterfly or footprints. And then maybe some restaurant g/c's that they can use when they don't feel like cooking or eating at home. I'm happy to take the collection and place the order.
I like the footprint one, but I also like the one that would have his name.
My personal fav is either the butterfly or footprints. And then maybe some restaurant g/c's that they can use when they don't feel like cooking or eating at home. I'm happy to take the collection and place the order.
I like them too. I'll let you know what my friend says too and will post something as well.
Those are beautiful! I will be glad to contribute.
I like them too. I'll also let y'all know what my friend comes up with.
I bet the girl could add another charm to the footprint one with his name or put his name on the other side of the footprints. I'll convo her and ask right now.
I am totally devastated by this!!!! I would love to help do something for Tiffany! I would also like to go and deliver it if you do that Lindsey! She works at the same office as my husband and I'm just so sad for her!! I definitely have a heavy heart this morning!
I saw the terrible news on FB this morning. My heart is just broken for them and I cannot imagine the pain they are feeling. Please let me know the final plans for the gift(s), I'd like to contribute as well.
I'm devastated. Absolutely devastated. I LOVED her pictures of him everyday and looked forward to them so much because he was just a precious little guy.
I also looked forward to those pictures, I know she will be so happy she did that.
I just saw posts on FB about this. My heart is broken and I can't even imagine their pain. I have added them to our Sunday School's prayer list. I am happy to do what I can for them.
I would be willing to take the basket, necklace, whatever to her if you all would like. I know she lives very close to me. I am not exactly sure where but I know its within 5 mins.
OR, A few of us from HSV could deliver it to her together, unless that would be too much. Thoughts? Or maybe mail would just be best to give her time?
I would be willing to take the basket, necklace, whatever to her if you all would like. I know she lives very close to me. I am not exactly sure where but I know its within 5 mins.
OR, A few of us from HSV could deliver it to her together, unless that would be too much. Thoughts? Or maybe mail would just be best to give her time?
I forgot to add in my previous post that I would also like to contribute to anything that we do.
I think it would be easier for one person to be in charge of collecting the money and buying the gifts. That person could be the one we send paypal donations to and buy the items we agree on.
I also would like to see what Katie's friend may be able to do for us before purchasing a necklace from someone else.
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I forgot to add in my previous post that I would also like to contribute to anything that we do.
I think it would be easier for one person to be in charge of collecting the money and buying the gifts. That person could be the one we send paypal donations to and buy the items we agree on.
I also would like to see what Katie's friend may be able to do for us before purchasing a necklace from someone else.
I'm sure I'll hear from her today, but I will def see her at my house tomorrow.
Hey guys! I know it's been a while...but I just saw the news on fb this morning. My heart just breaks for Tiffany....and I would be more than happy to help out and donate in whatever you decide!
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I will also contribute to whatever is decided. Food, a necklace, card... Whatever. A personal delivery sounds really sweet, but I think a group might be a bit overwhelming. If one person went representing all of us at a later time, that may be a bit easier for her to handle. They probably already have had tons of people trying to see them and haven't had much time to process it all on their own and really won't for a while. I'm not sure how you all feel about that, but I know when there is the death of someone close it leaves your head spinning and trying to keep it together for visitors is exhausting...
On my goodness, how devastating. I'm crying and heartbroken for them. I haven't read all the posts, so please let me know what u guys decide to do. Lord please bring them peace in this heartbreaking time.
Oh my goodness! This is devastating news. I'm not on FB so whatever the final concensus is on collecting money for whatever is decided, please post here so that I can contribute.
Re: Can we do something for Tiffany?
I am so confused...my heart breaks for them. I can't believe this has happened.
TTC #2 since 4/09
Unexplained Secondary IF
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4 failed rounds of clomid ~ 4 failed IUIs ~ 1 m/c
2/3/11: IUI #5 - Femara/Follistim/Ovidrel/Crinone = BFP (2/14)!!!
Beta #1 (12dpiui): 53 Beta #2 (14dpiui): 203 Beta #3 (20dpiui): 3932 Beta #4 (28dpiui): 60,775
1st U/S (3/3): 2 sacs & yolks 2nd U/S (3/8) 2 heartbeats-TWINS!
Baby A:6w6d HR 131 Baby B:6w4d HR 124
TWINS!! EDD 10/25/2011
me too and I can't even begin to imagine what they are going through.
Has anyone heard what happened yet? It all seems so sudden! She posted a picture of him some time yesterday and then the loss messages started. I assume what ever happened, happened last night or afternoon???
I am just trying to process it all. I can't imagine how they feel right now. Many prayers go out to them.
TTC #2 since 4/09
Unexplained Secondary IF
*****************************
4 failed rounds of clomid ~ 4 failed IUIs ~ 1 m/c
2/3/11: IUI #5 - Femara/Follistim/Ovidrel/Crinone = BFP (2/14)!!!
Beta #1 (12dpiui): 53 Beta #2 (14dpiui): 203 Beta #3 (20dpiui): 3932 Beta #4 (28dpiui): 60,775
1st U/S (3/3): 2 sacs & yolks 2nd U/S (3/8) 2 heartbeats-TWINS!
Baby A:6w6d HR 131 Baby B:6w4d HR 124
TWINS!! EDD 10/25/2011
I posted a link on Lindsey's new post from a friend of Tiffany's blog, she says it was most likely SIDS.
I am willing to do whatever we can for them during this time. I think a necklace (like Katie suggested) or something similar would be perfect.
That sounds great too Liz.
I have a friend who works at the local jewelers here, I'll ask if she has suggestions (she has a baby too so I'm sure she'd be touched as well)
I can't stop my eyes from watering. and my stomach and heart ache.
::speechless::
I didn't get on FB at all last night so I'm just finding out...I am so very sad about this...we have to do something.
I would be willing to take the basket, necklace, whatever to her if you all would like. I know she lives very close to me. I am not exactly sure where but I know its within 5 mins.
OR, A few of us from HSV could deliver it to her together, unless that would be too much. Thoughts? Or maybe mail would just be best to give her time?
TTC #2 since 4/09
Unexplained Secondary IF
*****************************
4 failed rounds of clomid ~ 4 failed IUIs ~ 1 m/c
2/3/11: IUI #5 - Femara/Follistim/Ovidrel/Crinone = BFP (2/14)!!!
Beta #1 (12dpiui): 53 Beta #2 (14dpiui): 203 Beta #3 (20dpiui): 3932 Beta #4 (28dpiui): 60,775
1st U/S (3/3): 2 sacs & yolks 2nd U/S (3/8) 2 heartbeats-TWINS!
Baby A:6w6d HR 131 Baby B:6w4d HR 124
TWINS!! EDD 10/25/2011
I think if it were me, I'd give her a little time.
I've emailed my friend (and I'll see her tomorrow night at my supper club) about a necklace. I even thought a cross pendant with his birthstones would be nice. He was born in May so it would be emeralds. I'll let y'all know.
I like Liz's idea so we could do a combo if y'all want.
My mom is putting them on their church prayer list and I'm praying hard.
Oh yea! I didn't mean today or even tomorrow. I know she needs time. I was just throwing it out there that when we were ready to send her something I could deliver it. It was just a thought. But like I said, it might be better just to mail it...
TTC #2 since 4/09
Unexplained Secondary IF
*****************************
4 failed rounds of clomid ~ 4 failed IUIs ~ 1 m/c
2/3/11: IUI #5 - Femara/Follistim/Ovidrel/Crinone = BFP (2/14)!!!
Beta #1 (12dpiui): 53 Beta #2 (14dpiui): 203 Beta #3 (20dpiui): 3932 Beta #4 (28dpiui): 60,775
1st U/S (3/3): 2 sacs & yolks 2nd U/S (3/8) 2 heartbeats-TWINS!
Baby A:6w6d HR 131 Baby B:6w4d HR 124
TWINS!! EDD 10/25/2011
oh totally knew what you meant. yeah, everyone handles these things differently. After some time she may want y'all to visit. If I could get up there I would too!!!
maybe we could reach out to her after a couple of days and see what she's up for.
I was thinking something like one of these...
Butterfly & birthstone
Footprints & birthstone
Forever in my heart & birthstone
His name & birthstone
My personal fav is either the butterfly or footprints. And then maybe some restaurant g/c's that they can use when they don't feel like cooking or eating at home. I'm happy to take the collection and place the order.
Those are beautiful! I will be glad to contribute.
TTC #2 since 4/09
Unexplained Secondary IF
*****************************
4 failed rounds of clomid ~ 4 failed IUIs ~ 1 m/c
2/3/11: IUI #5 - Femara/Follistim/Ovidrel/Crinone = BFP (2/14)!!!
Beta #1 (12dpiui): 53 Beta #2 (14dpiui): 203 Beta #3 (20dpiui): 3932 Beta #4 (28dpiui): 60,775
1st U/S (3/3): 2 sacs & yolks 2nd U/S (3/8) 2 heartbeats-TWINS!
Baby A:6w6d HR 131 Baby B:6w4d HR 124
TWINS!! EDD 10/25/2011
I like the footprint one, but I also like the one that would have his name.
I like them too. I'll also let y'all know what my friend comes up with.
Most definitely!
TTC #2 since 4/09
Unexplained Secondary IF
*****************************
4 failed rounds of clomid ~ 4 failed IUIs ~ 1 m/c
2/3/11: IUI #5 - Femara/Follistim/Ovidrel/Crinone = BFP (2/14)!!!
Beta #1 (12dpiui): 53 Beta #2 (14dpiui): 203 Beta #3 (20dpiui): 3932 Beta #4 (28dpiui): 60,775
1st U/S (3/3): 2 sacs & yolks 2nd U/S (3/8) 2 heartbeats-TWINS!
Baby A:6w6d HR 131 Baby B:6w4d HR 124
TWINS!! EDD 10/25/2011
I saw the terrible news on FB this morning. My heart is just broken for them and I cannot imagine the pain they are feeling. Please let me know the final plans for the gift(s), I'd like to contribute as well.
I also looked forward to those pictures, I know she will be so happy she did that.
I can not imagine what they must be going through!
I think we should do something! I work for Belk and if we like the necklace idea I could get it from our fine jewelry department with my discount.
I would be willing to go with you Lindsey!
Sounds great!
TTC #2 since 4/09
Unexplained Secondary IF
*****************************
4 failed rounds of clomid ~ 4 failed IUIs ~ 1 m/c
2/3/11: IUI #5 - Femara/Follistim/Ovidrel/Crinone = BFP (2/14)!!!
Beta #1 (12dpiui): 53 Beta #2 (14dpiui): 203 Beta #3 (20dpiui): 3932 Beta #4 (28dpiui): 60,775
1st U/S (3/3): 2 sacs & yolks 2nd U/S (3/8) 2 heartbeats-TWINS!
Baby A:6w6d HR 131 Baby B:6w4d HR 124
TWINS!! EDD 10/25/2011
Sarah I will send some money via PayPal.
I forgot to add in my previous post that I would also like to contribute to anything that we do.
I think it would be easier for one person to be in charge of collecting the money and buying the gifts. That person could be the one we send paypal donations to and buy the items we agree on.
I also would like to see what Katie's friend may be able to do for us before purchasing a necklace from someone else.
I'm sure I'll hear from her today, but I will def see her at my house tomorrow.