We are moving in November and our new house has very light carpeting. We'd like to have a "no shoes" policy to help keep them clean. We had an apartment once with cream carpets and we had to steam clean them a few times and scrub with carpet cleaner to get the high traffic areas clean.
What do you say to people when they come to your door if they're not familiar? Do you have some sort of shoe rack by the front door? I HATE clutter and just cannot stand the idea of a jumble of shoes by the door.
And unfortunately, we can't replace them now.
Re: Anyone have a "no shoes" policy?
My friend has a nice, oversized basket next to a bench for people to sit on as they take off their shoes. Another friend has a cute sign next to her door reminding people to remove their shoes. We have a short cabinet with doors that has individual slots (it wasn't originally meant for shoes). When you invite people over, just mention casually, that you would prefer people to take off their shoes.
DD#1~8/17/96------DS~10/24/05
I am a No Shoes person in the house too, but never ask people to remove their shoes.
For the most part, unless you have people over every single day, its not the guests who are creating the problem, but the family's daily use. So by keeping YOUR shoes off will make the most difference.
Plus, as the host it is my duty to make my guests feel comfortable. Many people are not comfortable taking their shoes off. I have extremely stinky feet and while I try to deal with that when I have a pre-arreanged date, if I have an unplanned visit, you are NOT GOING TO WANT my feet unshod.
Now, for us, we have a wooden shoe cubby hole box my DH made, right in the front hall. People can see that we have a variety of shoes in there, along with the house slippers. This is a pretty clear indicator of our policy, so if they are comfy taking off their shoes, they will ask.
DH and I always take our shoes off- but we are no shoes kinda people.
We have very light colored rugs (not by choice obviously)- i don't stress over other peoples shoes- unless it is raining or muddy out. Most people see my shoes by the front door and take them off- even though i tell them its totally up to them.
I am just more comfortable that way.
We don't walk around with shoes either, but I would never ask someone to take their shoes off. I personally find it rude unless it's part of your culture (I know many Asian families do this). It reminds me of the Sex and The City episode where someone stole Carrie's shoes because she was forced to take them off! LOL!
I have all hardwood or tile floors, so I don't make a big deal of it. There are friends that automatically take their shoes off, and others will ask.
I did in my old house because of light carpet. I would ask people who didn't know to remove their shoes. I had a basket of inexpensive slippers next to the door incase people wanted something on their feet.
DH is not a fan of it so after we got married that went out the window. We have hardwood with rugs and a dog. It isn't such a big deal. I have to clean so much because the dog is in and out constantly.
No. And I avoid going to the house of the one person I know who is like this.
a) I have a bad back. Wearing shoes with arch supports keeps me from crying in pain at night.
b) Do you want my DH's athlete's feet on your carpet instead?
c) Body oils will make your carpet grungy in the same areas and you'll have to have the carpets steam cleaned.
d) It makes you look anal and annoying to your acquaintences.