Could I be?

mypeanut2010

I haven't posted on this board much, but hello everyone:)  We have been trying to get preggo since my D&C in April. This was our 2nd m/c, and it was a very hard one to handle, but anyway... AF is due in 2 days, and I am feeling sick as a dog. I have been doing ok, but this last week I have had this constant undertone of nausea. I am also extremely exhausted. I did have what I thought might be implantation bleeding/spotting about a week. I took a test yesterday afternoon just to see if anything would come up. Taking the test did nothing but make me more confused. The test was not an obvious positive, but the 2nd line was there but very faint. I plan to test again on Sat, but trying not to get my hopes up. I have a feeling this might be our month though. Normally the week before AF I have some pretty bad cramps, but I haven't had anything. So, on with the waiting game. Best of luck to all of you ladies

Sunflower730

:::::Backs out of post :::::::

 

Aubs13

Please post on Pregnant After a Loss.

 

AppleRidge

No posts since May - Check

"Preggo" - Check

"Could I be" title - Check

Obviously positive HPT -  Check

Half-assed wish of good luck - Check!

Congrats, you are a goat! 

crystalknpp

Seiously? ......I cannot handle this today.

Gummybear

1. Hi, I am Gummy, it's nice to meet you

2. I am sorry for your losses

3. If there is a line, you are pg.

4. PGAL will be happy to talk about the second line and early symptoms. We don't know much about that because we are all still TTCAL.

ColleenS629

Your post makes it very clear that you haven't been on this board much. I hope everything works out well for you, but don't expect a lot of warm and fuzzy comments. In the future, I'd suggest lurking on a board before coming in with a post like this.

RunSchwartzRun

You are:

1. pregnant

2. kind of dumb for not knowing that a line means you are pregnant

3. rude and insensitive for posting your BFP on this board

 

Congrats!

CashewsMommy

First of all. Please say "pregnant" we all really hate the word:

Second of all. We're not doctors. If you think you're pregnant, take a test.... then move on to PgAL.

 

Edit: I didn't even read the whole post. You got a second line. You're pregnant. Now move on.

Aubs13

BBHME:

No posts since May - Check

"Preggo" - Check

"Could I be" title - Check

Obviously positive HPT -  Check

Half-assed wish of good luck - Check!

Congrats, you are a goat! 

mypeanut2010

Umm, thanks anyway. But in case you didn't notice in my ticker I am TTC after a loss, so that's why I posted here. Sorry if i offended anyone.

damabo80

GBCB in 3....2....1.....

pandapepperoni

Who pays these people to do this? Do you think the bump hires out?

Gummybear

You posted here when you got a + pg. test!

There is a difference.

No one wishes you any ill will, it's just this is a tight-knit group. We all offer support in order to get support.

damabo80

mypeanut2010:

Umm, thanks anyway. But in case you didn't notice in my ticker I am TTC after a loss, so that's why I posted here. Sorry if i offended anyone.

Well, techincally you are pregnant after a loss (2 lines anyone?). The TTC boat sailed.

Aubs13

damabo80:

GBCB in 3....2....1.....

Nah...I'm going with a post on PgAL about the "meanie heads" on here.

vflipo

mypeanut2010:

Umm, thanks anyway. But in case you didn't notice in my ticker I am TTC after a loss, so that's why I posted here. Sorry if i offended anyone.

Well, if you got a BFP, you are no longer trying to conceive after a loss... you are pregnant. 

RunSchwartzRun

mypeanut2010:

Umm, thanks anyway. But in case you didn't notice in my ticker I am TTC after a loss, so that's why I posted here. Sorry if i offended anyone.

Well, no, you aren't TTC after loss, you are pregnant after loss.  See the difference? See how there is a pregnant after loss board over there <------- ? 

We don't hate BFPs....we love them.  We just don't much care about people who only want our advice and support and don't want to give anything but a half-arsed good luck in return.

CashewsMommy

mypeanut2010:

Umm, thanks anyway. But in case you didn't notice in my ticker I am TTC after a loss, so that's why I posted here. Sorry if i offended anyone.

See... the thing is. I'll say it again. We don't know you.

Here we all are, a support group of ladies in a big room chatting about TTCAL stuff. There's you, lurking outside. We all know each other in this big room, we don't know you.

You get your BFP. So you run into the room and say "YAY GUYS! I'M LIKE YOU! BUT NOW I'M PREGNANT!" We all look at you like

Just because you had a loss doesn't give you the right to wave your BFP in our faces. We're strangers to you.

Sunflower730

mypeanut2010:

Umm, thanks anyway. But in case you didn't notice in my ticker I am TTC after a loss, so that's why I posted here. Sorry if i offended anyone.

::: Clears Throat for Speech:::

You made it known you have not been on this board long. As you put it above per your ticket you are still TTC.. my understanding that 2 lines = pregnancy..

The ladies on this board have become my family, I have come to respect each of them with their struggles. Yes we are all here as a common goal, but we also didn't just jump in and say support me. I got to know each of these girls as they have done with me.

So when a poster who has nto been on the board long shows up announcing a 2 lined "preggo" test as you called it, it hurts feeling and it shows lack of respect for others who like I am struggling to concieve a take home baby.

So please show some respect shut the gate and proceed right to PGAL or 1st tri.

 

mypeanut2010

I like I said, the second line was very faint, so I'm not sure if it's a BFP or not but thanks for making me feel like Sh!T for asking a damn question. I apologize for getting involved in your little "family". Please forget I even asked. I'm outta here!!!!!

Rawr08

I feel hopeless.... 

frogyie

Its too early for this. 

3ltlones

If you had a complete second line on a test, even if it was light, you are pregnant.  Since you have not posted on this board, no one here knows you, there for this is not the place to post asking about your BFP.  There is a great board Pregnant after a Loss, go there and introduce yourself or check out the first tri boards.  I am sorry for your loss.

Aubs13

mypeanut2010:

I like I said, the second line was very faint, so I'm not sure if it's a BFP or not but thanks for making me feel like Sh!T for asking a damn question. I apologize for getting involved in your little "family". Please forget I even asked. I'm outta here!!!!!

You called it, damabo80!  Good thing I didn't put money on it! 

CashewsMommy

mypeanut2010:

I like I said, the second line was very faint, so I'm not sure if it's a BFP or not but thanks for making me feel like Sh!T for asking a damn question. I apologize for getting involved in your little "family". Please forget I even asked. I'm outta here!!!!!

A line is a line no matter how light it is. You would not be getting a line at all if you were not pregnant. I think this was said in multiple comments above.

But yes. GBC TTCAL!

suntoto

 

Congratulations, you earned my favorite pip!

Sunflower730

suntoto:

 

Congratulations, you earned my favorite pip!

Thats awesome.

Aubs13

suntoto:

 

HOW is it that I haven't seen the hanging goat before?!  I've missed out!

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DowagerCountessofNJ

mypeanut2010:

Umm, thanks anyway. But in case you didn't notice in my ticker I am TTC after a loss, so that's why I posted here. Sorry if i offended anyone.

You have to understand why it's like a slap in the face for a total stranger to come on here and throw around her BFP.  If you had been a part of the board through you time TTCAL we would have been much more supportive of you.  How would you have felt if a total stranger walked up to you knowing you had suffered a loss and said "Oh so sorry but I'm pregnant!  Yay for me!"

I normally don't take offense but you're attitude, lack of sensitivity and common sense stink.  Since you don't understand why everyone is upset I doubt this will change your thinking.  I highly suggest you go over to PGAL.

Good luck to you.

millejj1

Sunflower730:

mypeanut2010:

Umm, thanks anyway. But in case you didn't notice in my ticker I am TTC after a loss, so that's why I posted here. Sorry if i offended anyone.

::: Clears Throat for Speech:::

You made it known you have not been on this board long. As you put it above per your ticket you are still TTC.. my understanding that 2 lines = pregnancy..

The ladies on this board have become my family, I have come to respect each of them with their struggles. Yes we are all here as a common goal, but we also didn't just jump in and say support me. I got to know each of these girls as they have done with me.

So when a poster who has nto been on the board long shows up announcing a 2 lined "preggo" test as you called it, it hurts feeling and it shows lack of respect for others who like I am struggling to concieve a take home baby.

So please show some respect shut the gate and proceed right to PGAL or 1st tri.

 

  This. Exactly this.

OP: I do truly hope this is your take home baby. No one deserves to lose a LO. Shanna82 has links to some FAQ's and "etiquette" of the board. Please check them out.

EclairAngst

suntoto:

 

Congratulations, you earned my favorite pip!

 

Ahahahahahahaa!!  

shanna82

awesome-sauce

Could I be?

No, i'm sorry, you are not smart.

momagain2009

Aubs13:

Please post on Pregnant After a Loss.

 

No, please don't.  Go immediately to First Tri.....do not pass go....do not collect $200. Adios!

ikissedthecook

::headdesk::

CashewsMommy

shanna82:

There she is!!!

noah-bear

OMFG SQUEEE! I've been hoping and praying you'd get KTFU soon!!!! I haven't stopped thinking about you!!!!!!!!eleventy11one!!!1!

 

BTW-I totally remember your intro and ALL the support you've given me and all the others. I see you every day and smile....

 

Oh shlt...that was someone else...nevermind 

a&b=him&me

shanna82:

HAHAHA! love it. pure comedy. *THIS*

love, I am so sorry for your loss but I agree with these ladies - this definitely isn't the place to post this.

PrincessDi80

Ok I did not have my coffee before reading this, I am not nice pre-coffee. This post belongs on the PGAL board, so take your faint pregnant line over there.

damabo80

Aubs13:

mypeanut2010:

I like I said, the second line was very faint, so I'm not sure if it's a BFP or not but thanks for making me feel like Sh!T for asking a damn question. I apologize for getting involved in your little "family". Please forget I even asked. I'm outta here!!!!!

You called it, damabo80!  Good thing I didn't put money on it! 

bwhahaha...too bad we didn't bet. Mama needs a new pair of shoes!