For real, now I got an invite for her...

Kitten80

Bachelorette Party.  (See OP like 2 days ago about a good friend having a destination wedding & then doing a big wedding 2 years later with bridal shower, etc.)

Got a FB save the date for a downtown Chi Bachlorette Party.  Which, if the plan is we bar hop, will be expensive!  Even if you don't have a single drink, the cover charges alone will be a week's grocery bill at least.  She has been married for almost 2 years!!!! 

I never got a real bachlorette party, maybe I should throw a "I am not getting any at home and never got my last hurrah so join me for a night out on the town remembering my single days" party.  Anyone else want to come ;o)

Dr.Loretta

Oy.

If she wants to go out with the girls, just go out with the girls. But don't call it a bachelorette party.

Please tell me she's not hosting her own party as well.

MamaKajsa

Kitten80:

Bachelorette Party.  (See OP like 2 days ago about a good friend having a destination wedding & then doing a big wedding 2 years later with bridal shower, etc.)

Got a FB save the date for a downtown Chi Bachlorette Party.  Which, if the plan is we bar hop, will be expensive!  Even if you don't have a single drink, the cover charges alone will be a week's grocery bill at least.  She has been married for almost 2 years!!!! 

I never got a real bachlorette party, maybe I should throw a "I am not getting any at home and never got my last hurrah so join me for a night out on the town remembering my single days" party.  Anyone else want to come ;o)

I'll come!!!! haha I'm in the same boat honey.

Stacyc625

Just decline-

I have a friend who is the SAME exact way- as your situation- the wedding, the shower, the bachelorette party and NOW her baby shower (that she threw for herself, at her house, sent an e-vite, made it BYOB AND bring an appetizer--- oh and btw- it is 'my' birthday too) I was like, umm yeah- i have something going on that day- have fun.

 

megs54321

Wow- same thing just happened to me.

Has everyone lost their sense of etiquette?  

Daisy77

W.o.w.  And everyone around her is just going along with all of this?  Hell, I'm all for a good party now and then but if this was my sister or good friend we'd be having a "Are-you-out-of-your-mind?!" talk like yesterday.  Like you said, she HAD her wedding already.  There is a big difference between a vow renewal and taking advantage of your family/friends.  I'd probably just tell her you can only make the ceremony and it'll be that way the 3rd time she pulls this crap.  Yikes. 

 

babypuplove

Ridiculous.  How does one even justify a bachelorette party once they have been married?  That makes absolutely no sense at all.  Sounds like a great way for her to have a fun night out without paying.