TTC after 35

Cycle 7 'sigh'

Well onto cycle 7........god this is so hard!!!!! I seen my doc last week and she is referring me to a fertility clinic so atleast if there is something wrong we will find out.........soon i hope!!! My SIL asked me if we were trying.....we were all drunk so of course i spilled the beans and then broke down and cried.......im an idiot!!!!! Anyway ladies hope you all had a great easter Big Smile

Re: Cycle 7 'sigh'

  • I'm so sorry!  You're right, this is incredibly hard and it's not fair that it is easy for some people.  I think it is great that you are going to an RE.  At our age, if there is something that can be "fixed" the sooner the better.

    I hope this is lucky #7 for you!

    Hang in there. 

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  • Thanks redsoxbono, ya i know it can take awhile for all the tests, my doc was kinda looking at me funny.....like why was i so concerned only after 6mths of trying though she understood because of my age!!! She took blood and is testing the progesterone and i must go on thursday for more bloodwork, not sure what she testing then! Fingers crossed for us all! x
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  • That stinks!!! I'm glad you're headed to the RE....maybe you don't need anything fixed, but just a little extra help......or maybe since you made the appt, you'll get KU this cycle before you go (things always seem to turn out that way). Good luck!
    1 ectopic 3 m/c's prior to 5/05 Un-freaking-explained IF 5/05 IVF, BFN 9/05 FET 3d5e, BFP = Beautiful Baby Girl (lucky pg #5) 8/08 Fet 3d5e, cp 12/08 IVF with PGD, transfer 3, BFN 5/09 FET transfer 4, BFN Hail Mary IUI with Follistim 9/11 BFP; 9/22 confirmed tubal/MTX 4/10 FET 3d5e, BFP!!!! m/c 5/26/10 1 year break and yet another m/c 5/11 FET #5 initial beat 121, second beta 7 Lap and removal of L tube and very mild endo 7/11 Suprise BFP 12/11 & m/c @ 8 wks. After 11 losses and one beautiful miracle our journey is over, we are thankful and at peace.
  • Sorry, Karen.

    AF is the devil's sister!

    But good for you for going to a clinic. I hope you get KU very, very soon.

  • I'm sorry karenammark, but I am glad to hear you are getting some testing done.  Don't worry about the drunken confession, you are not an idiot, and we have all been there =)  Hope cycle 7 is the one!!
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  • Thanks MAH123, thats what she said, i might end up getting pg before hand, oooooooohhhh i am praying so!!!! GL to you also x
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    I'm sorry karenammark, but I am glad to hear you are getting some testing done.  Don't worry about the drunken confession, you are not an idiot, and we have all been there =)  Hope cycle 7 is the one!!

    Thanks (she knew i prob would confess with alcohol Big Smile) GL to you also x

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    Sorry, Karen.

    AF is the devil's sister!

    But good for you for going to a clinic. I hope you get KU very, very soon.

    Thanks joyfulnature, she bloody well sure is, i have had cramps since last wknd, she is killing me this month!!!! GL to you also x

  • Sorry that you're dealing w/that wretched bee-atch AF; but am glad to hear that you are going to an RE.  Oh, and the drunken confession...hey, we have all done that.   :)   GL to you!!
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  • Thanks rach2100....im such a sap when im drunk Big Smile she was great about it, i remember (just about) sobbing saying 'im broken'.......drama queen!!!! GL to you also x
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    I'm glad you are moving onto a specialist - I don't think it helps to just wait and see.  Don't worry at all about the drunken confession, totally happens.  I hope this next month is your month!
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  • Thanks jcath, i hope so too! I am looking forward to going to the specialist and looking forward to hopefuly been told im ok and dh is ok Big Smile GL to you also and im so sorry for your loss (hugs) x
  • There's nothing wrong with a (drunken or otherwise) boohoo.  GL with the RE and try to stay upbeat!  :)
  • I took this cycle real hard too, so I understand how you are feeling.  Sorry, I know its really hard especially when people ask you, "when you going to have kids?"  As if we could decide that.  Hopefully, this is your lucky cycle and you won't need the RE, but if you do, hopefully they find out you just need something little to get you there.  Good luck.  Nutella makes me feel better. Smile
    I give up trying to get a ticker.  I have a DD that is 2.5 years old and is awesome.  Maybe I'll add a quote to distinguish myself.  Hmmm.  How about...

    "It is more fun to talk with someone who doesn't use long, difficult words but rather short, easy words like "What about lunch?" - A.A. Milne, Winnie-the-Pooh
  • Thanks hollyh74, im surprisingly upbeat this month though (when sober), last month i was very upset, i guess im seeing a specialist and feel better doing so!! GL to you x
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    I took this cycle real hard too, so I understand how you are feeling.  Sorry, I know its really hard especially when people ask you, "when you going to have kids?"  As if we could decide that.  Hopefully, this is your lucky cycle and you won't need the RE, but if you do, hopefully they find out you just need something little to get you there.  Good luck.  Nutella makes me feel better. Smile

     Thanks izzourclue, i took last cycle alot worse, not too bad this time (when sober!!) The fact im seeing a specialist has kept me optimistic!! Not a Nutella fan, dont like nutty choc, i go for it straight.......im daydreaming about some left over easter eggs at home, thats my dinner sorted Big Smile, thanks again and GL to you also x

     

  • Good luck!  I hope that you find your answers quickly and that the RE helps bring you the baby of your dreams.
  • Aw thanks surfergirl, GL to you also and im so sorry for your loss x
  • Good luck with the RE.  This whole process is so hard.  Left Hug

  • So very hard, thanks mrskario, gl to you also x
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