Anyone have any tips? I have yet to overcome my fear of nursing in public.
MC 4/09 at 6w2d
Rainbow Jude
born: 12/31/09
Pre-E Induction at 36w4d
11 Day NICU stay due to GBS infection
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Rainbow Violet
born: 9/11/13
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Re: Nursing in Public
This is what I do when I know I'll be out for an extended period. I pump and bottle feed. I use the Tommee Tippee bottles and DS goes back and forth just fine.
use the moby or a nursing cover. You don't need a fancy one you can get one at Target for about $15 they are really helpful if you feel shy. I've done it a couple times and I don't have a problem with it. Someone told me that once you have done it it gets easier and they are right.
The first time I NIP was at the mall and I nursed her in the moby using the cradle hold. The front part the you pull up hides everything and I was able to slip my hand in the side to unlatch my nursing tank. If i didn't have the tanks, I don't think I would be comfortable NIP since I would be self consious about my tummy and stretch marks showing. With the tank and the moby there is nothing to see, especially once Ella is latched cause she covers what skin is showing. My brother didn't even realize I was nursing and he was walking right next to me. Until he tried to peak in at her and I told him. He laughed and said, "I hope my future wife is as cool as you." That made me feel pretty awsome I have to admit. We also have a home-made hooter hider that someone from Sean's work made for me. I used that the other day at Steak N' Shake and when I had her in the moby but I was baby sitting and little kids have no sense of space and I didn't want my boob to fall out when they came crawling on/around me.
I do it all the time. DD was less than 2 weeks my first time and I had a girlfriend with me. That kinda helped. Also, I nurse at home without any special stuff like a boppy or breast friend. That way I don't need it while out.
While I'm NIP I don't make eye contact with a whole lot of people. I'm not hiding I'm just not inviting attention. I do not cover myself or my DD. Today I bf while walking through the mall (a first for me to be able to walk and bf at the same time
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I have NIP'd almost everywhere you can think of! I think it's sooooo much easier than pumping and using a bottle. If I'm in a store that has dressing rooms I usually use that so I don't have to cover up. LO eats a little better if her head's not covered. Otherwise, I always use my Hooter Hider. I love it. Most people don't even realize that I am nursing. I even nurse while I am walking around and shopping if I am in a hurry or not in the mood to sit.
Like a PP said, nursing tanks are great to keep your back from hanging out. The nursing cover will keep the tummy covered, but without a nursing tank, my love handles hang out in the back. Not cute! Or if you have a low cut shirt, you can just scoop your boob right out of the top of it.