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  • jesswheelsjesswheels member
    I have to be on top to get off. And I can't do it myself without the help of a vibrator. My fingers just don't do it. I don't know. Maybe I need some help?

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    dh (or i) have to use a little assistance from BOB if you know what i mean...

    i have always had trouble sealing the deal and this is the only thing that has ever worked...

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  • Kristi221Kristi221
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    Just a little advice on getting it done yourself if need be. 

    Try the shower....if you can get off from external sensations, use the shower head (if yous is detachable)...if not and you can work it, get underneath the running bathtub.  Gets me everytime.

    I was just going to post this! I used to have a vib (that DH bought me) but I have no idea where it is now. Massaging shower head...yes please!!

    And the only time I got the O through sex was me on top...him on the floor! haha!

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  • DaisyCakes18DaisyCakes18
    Most of the time I have to be on top but I have to admit, the BEST one I've ever had was with oral.
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    imageKristi221:
    PS - I know I can't be the only girl here who isn't able to finish through sex alone. It's happened once...ever...ugh! So frustrating!

    I can't just from sex Embarrassed i chose all of the above please but i can only finish through oral or finger walking! Wink

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  • PinkLove-SPinkLove-S
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    Here's a special snowflake for ya!

    I've never had an O!! I'm hoping pregnancy might help this situation.

    Whaaa??? Oh no!

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  • melissar617melissar617
    I have to get really close with fingers or vibe first and then am able to finish off with sex. Without those first, forget it.
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  • melissar617melissar617
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    Here's a special snowflake for ya!

    I've never had an O!! I'm hoping pregnancy might help this situation.

    This was me for 7 years, until I met DH.  I tease him that that's why I married him. :) I think for me it was that he took the time to ask and make sure he knew what would help, and made me feel comfortable... I hope you find a way!!

    Same here! I got close a few times, but could never push myself over the top. I agree, it is definitely due to being more comfortable... with myself and with him. 

    GL Jiffy! I hope you find something. Like the others have mentioned, go invest in a good toy :) 

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  • maddiemoon43maddiemoon43 member

    imagemelissar617:
    I have to get really close with fingers or vibe first and then am able to finish off with sex. Without those first, forget it.

     This.  And maybe some oral too...but need to be close too.

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