We have to plan our shower ourselves because if we don't it wont get done. My mom volunteered and hasn't done anything yet, not that she doesn't care she's just busy enjoying being divorced. But if I give her task here and there she can help. This baby #2 for me and it's a boy my Fianc? is set on a Dallas Cowboys theme. He's really excited because our daughter is 3 and his 4 yr old was born at 27 weeks so he and his X did not have a chance to have a shower. So he See's this a wonderful opportunity, I like the color scheme but I don't want it look like a super bowl party. He wants mini Cowboy helmets on the table and star confetti as centerpieces. Can someone help me find a happy medium please.