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crazy paranoid!

PMJacobsenPMJacobsen
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with my last pregnancy, i was mildly nervous about the idea of a MC, but it seems like this time i can't stop worrying about it.  i have an appt on wednesday- just a check up- but i am terrified that they won't be able to find a heart beat and i'll get bad news.  there has been so much bad news on the bump lately, and it just makes me more emotional and scared.  maybe it's just hormones and pregnancy, but i feel like a wreck.  i also don't really feel like i have an outlet for it bc DH looks at me like i'm crazy when i tell him i can't stop thinking about miscarrying.  but i can't.  i have PCOS and have been told that there is a 40% MC rate with PCOS.  i have had one pregnancy with no problems, so i am worried that if the stats are right, i will be really likely to MC this time.  is anyone else paranoid? 
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  • Canes26Canes26 member
    I'm right there with you. I had one health pregnancy and then a MC in June at 6 weeks. I have an ultrasound Friday (im 9 weeks today) and am Praying to God we hear a heart beat!. DH thinks i'm crazy for worrying about another MC since i've had some many symptoms where last time i didn't really besides sore boobs. And sometimes i tell my self i need to take a break from the bump b/c all of the sad news latley freaks me out even more. So heres to a H&H 9 months to both of us!
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  • PSUBean22PSUBean22 member
    I am right there with you!  I POAS all the time but it really doesnt help my fear!!
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  • kerriqueenkerriqueen

    I'm feeling the same way, but I'm reading this book called "What to Expect When You're Expecting" and it says that if you've had a previous healthy pregnancy, then your chances are even better the second time around.

    I'm still worried, but hopefully it'll all stop for us and we can relax. :)

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  • tifvolleytifvolley member
    I thought I was the only one!  For some reason, I didn't worry too much about a MC last time.  This PG, it's constantly on my mind.  I think a lot of it has to do with all the cramping I'm having.  I didn't have that with DS, and it just makes me worried.
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  • PMJacobsenPMJacobsen

    i am so happy to know i'm not alone :)

     

    thanks ladies- and that info from WTEWYE is very reassuring!! Big Smile

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