An update was requested

Sarahgracesc

Sorry, I've been outrageously busy.

 I moved back into the house, but DH and I are going to counseling.  I got a job (yup, in addition to being a SAHM and full time student), but the hours aren't steady.  However, I'll take what I can get.  DH still hasn't found another job, and in fact his boss just increased his day from 8 to 9 hours.  So he now gets to sit doing nothing for 9 hours a day.  At this point, seriously, I just want to get through the next couple of years so that I can be done with school and support DD and myself.  Yes, I will more than likely not stay with DH at that point.  Right now, however, my options are extremely limited.  Living with my parents is extremely difficult, and while I love them like crazy, it makes our relationship incredibly strained.  So, for as long as I can, I'll stay here at the house and DH and I will continue counseling, and I'll continue to urge him to find another job.

Clearly not how I want things to be.  But he's not the man I thought he was, so that's to be expected.

I hope all is well and hope everyone has a wonderful Thanksgiving.

I have 5 exams to do (yup, one is even due on Thanksgiving DAY, and the prof hasn't posted the lecture yet...awesomeness).  So I'm going back to running around like a crazy woman.

TimingisEverything

Sorry things aren't going well. GL with everything!

AngieandTony

glad to hear you are ok. i hope everything works out.

Fish4Fun

Oh geez, that sounds like such a stressful situation.  I am really impressed that you seem to have things under control.  Best wishes and good luck.  I hope the holidays give you at least a brief reprieve.

adamwife

Take care of yourself and try to get some good rest.  It sounds like you have a lot on your plate!!

HUGS

Aprilsies

Thanks for the update! We're here for you if you need some bumpie supports!