T-Banned

luckyabby09

Hey!!! soooo I really wish you would have your baby and come play with me in 0-3

frf1537

I think she went to bed cause she has a busy day tomorrow

MrsHK

Ya, there are some truly bitter people over there. I swear some people just enjoy being miserable and want everyone else to be there with them too.

DeniseNike

Im jealous. I Had hella strong contractions today, had to have FI pull over on the freeway to let me stand up. I thought I was joining the 0-3 team, sigh.

luckyabby09

MrsHK:

Ya, there are some truly bitter people over there. I swear some people just enjoy being miserable and want everyone else to be there with them too.

amen! i'm not liked over there cause I had an easy pregnancy, birth, recovery and an easy child.....I am just very lucky! but that makes me the annoying poster. Cause I'm actually happy having my baby.  

frf1537

luckyabby09:

MrsHK:

Ya, there are some truly bitter people over there. I swear some people just enjoy being miserable and want everyone else to be there with them too.

amen! i'm not liked over there cause I had an easy pregnancy, birth, recovery and an easy child.....I am just very lucky! but that makes me the annoying poster. Cause I'm actually happy having my baby.  

I saw that. They jumped on you quick. I say I hope I'm as lucky as you and if not oh well. I don't wish anyone a difficult recovery!

luckyabby09

frf1537:

luckyabby09:

MrsHK:

Ya, there are some truly bitter people over there. I swear some people just enjoy being miserable and want everyone else to be there with them too.

amen! i'm not liked over there cause I had an easy pregnancy, birth, recovery and an easy child.....I am just very lucky! but that makes me the annoying poster. Cause I'm actually happy having my baby.  

I saw that. They jumped on you quick. I say I hope I'm as lucky as you and if not oh well. I don't wish anyone a difficult recovery!

Meh! My husband and baby like me! thats what matters. I would rather feel like a million bucks and have everyone hate me, than feel like *** and fit in!

I hope EVERYONE has it this easy!  

MrsHK

luckyabby09:

MrsHK:

Ya, there are some truly bitter people over there. I swear some people just enjoy being miserable and want everyone else to be there with them too.

amen! i'm not liked over there cause I had an easy pregnancy, birth, recovery and an easy child.....I am just very lucky! but that makes me the annoying poster. Cause I'm actually happy having my baby.  

I had an easy baby but none of the other categories with DS. But still I wasn't bitter to hear about people who did have great success and ease. 

I think some people also feel the need to just automatically fall into the hormonal/sleep deprived/cranky new mom stereotype. Like they've just always been told that what their role is suppose to be so they go with it. I liken it to pregnant women who feel the right to be an outright b!tch because 'oh those hormones'. 

Or maybe I make no sense anymore and should just go to bed.

MrsHK

luckyabby09:

frf1537:

luckyabby09:

MrsHK:

Ya, there are some truly bitter people over there. I swear some people just enjoy being miserable and want everyone else to be there with them too.

amen! i'm not liked over there cause I had an easy pregnancy, birth, recovery and an easy child.....I am just very lucky! but that makes me the annoying poster. Cause I'm actually happy having my baby.  

I saw that. They jumped on you quick. I say I hope I'm as lucky as you and if not oh well. I don't wish anyone a difficult recovery!

Meh! My husband and baby like me! thats what matters. I would rather feel like a million bucks and have everyone hate me, than feel like *** and fit in!

I hope EVERYONE has it this easy!  

Love this, it's so true. 

Celiarh1

It was just wrong because you said it was a FFFC sooo why all the flames? I read plenty of FFFC that I don't agree with but I don't flame that person! Don't worry soon more of us will be there with you. Hopefully that will make it better.

luckyabby09

MrsHK:

luckyabby09:

MrsHK:

Ya, there are some truly bitter people over there. I swear some people just enjoy being miserable and want everyone else to be there with them too.

amen! i'm not liked over there cause I had an easy pregnancy, birth, recovery and an easy child.....I am just very lucky! but that makes me the annoying poster. Cause I'm actually happy having my baby.  

I had an easy baby but none of the other categories with DS. But still I wasn't bitter to hear about people who did have great success and ease. 

I think some people also feel the need to just automatically fall into the hormonal/sleep deprived/cranky new mom stereotype. Like they've just always been told that what their role is suppose to be so they go with it. I liken it to pregnant women who feel the right to be an outright b!tch because 'oh those hormones'. 

Or maybe I make no sense anymore and should just go to bed.

You make total sense to me. I refuse to be that "tired, cranky, sleep deprived, self sacrificing" new mom. My role is mommy first, me second. But I am not bitter about attending to DS! I love every moment. I had a friend who felt the need to fall into that "mom" stereotype. She was BEYOND annoying after having her baby.

MrsHK

luckyabby09:

MrsHK:

luckyabby09:

MrsHK:

Ya, there are some truly bitter people over there. I swear some people just enjoy being miserable and want everyone else to be there with them too.

amen! i'm not liked over there cause I had an easy pregnancy, birth, recovery and an easy child.....I am just very lucky! but that makes me the annoying poster. Cause I'm actually happy having my baby.  

I had an easy baby but none of the other categories with DS. But still I wasn't bitter to hear about people who did have great success and ease. 

I think some people also feel the need to just automatically fall into the hormonal/sleep deprived/cranky new mom stereotype. Like they've just always been told that what their role is suppose to be so they go with it. I liken it to pregnant women who feel the right to be an outright b!tch because 'oh those hormones'. 

Or maybe I make no sense anymore and should just go to bed.

You make total sense to me. I refuse to be that "tired, cranky, sleep deprived, self sacrificing" new mom. My role is mommy first, me second. But I am not bitter about attending to DS! I love every moment. I had a friend who felt the need to fall into that "mom" stereotype. She was BEYOND annoying after having her baby.

Oh, oh, oh MARTYR! That's the word I'm looking for. Thanks, 'self sacrificing' really helped get my brain cells searching for the right word. 

frf1537

MrsHK:

luckyabby09:

MrsHK:

luckyabby09:

MrsHK:

Ya, there are some truly bitter people over there. I swear some people just enjoy being miserable and want everyone else to be there with them too.

amen! i'm not liked over there cause I had an easy pregnancy, birth, recovery and an easy child.....I am just very lucky! but that makes me the annoying poster. Cause I'm actually happy having my baby.  

I had an easy baby but none of the other categories with DS. But still I wasn't bitter to hear about people who did have great success and ease. 

I think some people also feel the need to just automatically fall into the hormonal/sleep deprived/cranky new mom stereotype. Like they've just always been told that what their role is suppose to be so they go with it. I liken it to pregnant women who feel the right to be an outright b!tch because 'oh those hormones'. 

Or maybe I make no sense anymore and should just go to bed.

You make total sense to me. I refuse to be that "tired, cranky, sleep deprived, self sacrificing" new mom. My role is mommy first, me second. But I am not bitter about attending to DS! I love every moment. I had a friend who felt the need to fall into that "mom" stereotype. She was BEYOND annoying after having her baby.

Oh, oh, oh MARTYR! That's the word I'm looking for. Thanks, 'self sacrificing' really helped get my brain cells searching for the right word. 

With such a hard pregnancy I am looking forward to the sleepless nights that have a reason- an outside baby, not just lack of bipolar meds. I have a woman at work who falls into the martyr role (as she did with pregnancy) about how she is SOOOO tired! It took everything within me to not say "Try not sleeping for 3 days straight" when she complained that she only got 5 hours but had to get up 3 times.

luckyabby09

trust me! Sleepless nights with a purpose are amazing! I hated always needing to get up to pee 10 times a night. I was WAY more tired between 35-40 weeks than I am now!