candycane3t

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I read your post about Becka.  That is so sad and heartbreaking. 

I shared this a while ago and thought that if you are sending her a card you might think of including a "strength" and "grace" rock with it...

I recently received a rock from an IRL friend who lost her baby at 20 weeks (I think...). The rock came with a beautiful story.  To make a long story short, she received 2 rocks when she had her loss.  They said "grace" and "strength", after hearing about our loss and our trouble TTC, she sent me the rock that said "strength" along with a 2 page story on her loss and about the stone.  The lady who gave her the stones said those are the 2 things that people who go through losses need- strength and grace.  She is right.  To get through the heartache and sadness of a loss you need strength and grace.   Let her know you (and all of us here) are there for her and will lend her support so she can use her strength and grace to get through this heartache.

candycane3t

Laura - I will include the rocks along with this post.  Great idea.