does anyone else feel this way.....

alovelylady

I was telling my DH last night, that I feel like my m/c happened to someone else, because everything happened so fast, from finding out, to having surgery. I feel like it was a out of body experience, and I feel disconnected from what happened. I dont know if this is a good thing or a bad thing. It is like I want to not forget what happened, but it hurt so bad.

marisslyn

Some days I feel this way, like it all was a bad dream. But then reality sinks in and I feel way worse. So sorry.

alovelylady

thanks for the kind words. I can relate about the needles poking and so on, when I took my first shower when we got home from the hospital, I saw all the bruising and needle holes and I freaked out!

Cissi64

I  think the detached feeling is a coping mechanism.  If you live in the midst of your grief for too long, you go nuts.  It is like your brain is letting you take a little break.  I know it hurts when it all comes rushing back but there isn't really a way to avoid it.  Here are prayers that you will be feeling bette soon.

june909

I feel the same way I have no emotions what so ever towards it I feel like it never happened.