I have to talk to my dh about my mil

LUCKY41010

I have had it with her stupid comments..First when we found out we were pregnant we were shocked.And she had the nerve to say since I wasn't "feeling" pregnant that maybe there was still hope.....THen a couple weeks later she asked how I was feeling and I said I had felt better she said "do you wish you would have thought b/f you acted"   and then last week we were taking here back to the airport this is part of dh's fault he said after the baby is born that I should get an iud...and I said that is what I was already thinking of...my mil said can't they just fix you when they are in there???My dh said NO...I have to spend the weekend with her and i'm not looking forward to it @ALL..Weird

SWMcFarland

That's awful!  I am so sorry your MIL is like that.  What a Debbie Downer.

How are you feeling?  Hope you are doing well and enjoying your pregnancy so far!!!  :-)

Mommy2Gav

Wow. I think I would go off on my MIL if she made those comments to me. You are a saint! 

pmkmp

You are a saint for putting up with her and not coming uncorked on her by now!  Lord knows I would have spoke my mind after the 2nd rude comment.  Your DH definitely needs to talk to her.  I just don't get how someone couldn't be excited over a new baby in the family!

TriciaJoy

whoa.

That's..

 

wow.

 

LUCKY41010

I have tried and tried but I can't FORGET what she has said..

franciscaz

  Yeah, so not cool!  You need to let your DH she is not allowed in ya'lls life UNLESS there is a major attitude change.

TripMomma

I would be so done with this woman, family or not...DONE!

misscinn

the woman obviously has her own issues & sounds incredibly jealous of you (for whatever reason). you can go the way of having your DH speak w/ her but honestly, you may want to resolve this on your own. i think you'll feel empowered by the experience of standing up for yourself. since this post is from early sept, she has most likely gone home, in which case, maybe write her a letter and try not to sound defensive. use reverse psychology ... you may not win her over completely but at least you'll be the bigger person. good luck!