Pregnant after 35

I now have two angels in heaven :-(

Hello all ... I was so thrilled to join this board a month ago.   Sadly my heart was broken again this weekend.  I lost my second lil peanut on Sunday afternoon ( natural m/c).   My doctor confirmed my m/c this morning.  As this is my second consective miscarriage in 4-5 months and I am of "ama" my doctor wants to start doing a lot tests to see what is possibly causing this ( besides my age).  We will be seeing a high risk obgyn ( peri. ), etc.   I pray they are able to help us.  I just can't seem to be able to stay pregnant ... it breaks my heart.  I hope and pray one day I will be able to hold my own little one tightly in my arms.  Thank you all for your warm and wonderful posts.  I wish you all the best !!! H&H 9 months to all !!!
5 ANGELS IN HEAVEN ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ -> miss m/c discovered on 4/6/09 at 9wks 3 days ( measured 6wks 1day ) m/c on 4/15/09 -> natural m/c on 8/27/09 at 8wks 1 day -> miss m/c discovered on 5/27/10 at 8wks 3 days ( measured 8wks ) m/c on 6/15/10 -> natural m/c on 1/27/11 at 10wks 3days -> natural m/c on 3/12/12 at 7wks ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Re: I now have two angels in heaven :-(

  • I am so sorry. My T&P are with you. I hope the peri can bring you some answers and will get you back here as soon as you are ready.
  • I am so sorry for your loss!  Don't give up hope for the future... I've had 6 losses, including two ectopics, and I still managed to get and stay pregnant at 41 with out having to supplement.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.
  •  I am so sorry for your loss, big (((HUGS)))
  • I am so so sorry. My heart hurts for you. I found myself visiting the Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss group after my latest loss. It's terrible to "belong" to that group, but those ladies are incredibly supportive there as well.

    I'm sending you comforting thoughts and healing energy.

    ((HUGS!!)) 

    Kari

  • I am so sorry for your losses. I hope the peri is able to help you and that you are back here soon.
  • I am so sorry. As PP said never give up hope.
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  • This is heartbreaking.  I am so sorry for your loss.  Hopefully the peri can give you some answers. 
  • I'm so sorry. I really hope the specialist is able to find some answers and you are able to get back here for 9 months very soon.

    Best of luck to you. 

  • i'm so sorry.  please take care of yourself.
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  • I am so sorry for your losses!  
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. I;ve had 2 m/c due to severe chromosomal issues. This round, I did IVF with PGD. Perhaps that is something you might want to look into. If you have any questions, please PM me.

    I hope you recover quickly.

  • I am so sorry for your loss.   :(
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. hopefully, the peri will be able to give you some answers.
  • I'm so sorry for your losses. I hope you the peri is able to help.
  • I am so sorry.  I don't think I can possibly know how hard this must be for you.  Take care of yourself.  Give you body time to heal and see what the specialists have to say.  I hope and pray that one day you will be blessed with the baby you are dreaming of.
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  •  I am so sorry for your loss and hope to see you back soon...you are in my prayers.
  • I'm very, very sorry. I'm glad to hear you're going to see a peri--I'll  keep you in my thoughts.
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  • I am so sorry for your losses.  My thoughts are with you and your family.  Best wishes to you for what the future brings!!
  • I am so sorry for your losses. I hope the new doctor come sup with some answers and a plan!

     

  • I am so very sorry for your loss. Hopefully the testing will yield some answers and we will see you here again soon.  Have you checked out the pregnancy loss and related boards?  There are some incredibly supportive women there.
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  • I am so sorry, there are no words. I hope you find answers and may you be blessed with a miracle.
  • Ditto to what's already been said.  Give yourself plenty of time to grieve and recover and heal.   You're certainly among friends here--many who've been in your shoes.

     

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  • Thank you all for your warm thoughts.  Today has been a rough day.   D/H went back to work and I am home alone ( well me and our kitty :-).   We won't get to see our new doctor for two weeks or so ( she's on vacation ) .  That's okay, I think I need a little time to rest and get myself back on my feet, so to speak.  You guys are all amazing and thank you so much for being such great support !!!
    5 ANGELS IN HEAVEN ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ -> miss m/c discovered on 4/6/09 at 9wks 3 days ( measured 6wks 1day ) m/c on 4/15/09 -> natural m/c on 8/27/09 at 8wks 1 day -> miss m/c discovered on 5/27/10 at 8wks 3 days ( measured 8wks ) m/c on 6/15/10 -> natural m/c on 1/27/11 at 10wks 3days -> natural m/c on 3/12/12 at 7wks ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
  • I'm really sorry for your loss :( and I hope you can get some answers and have a LO in your arms soon.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this heart-breaking time. ::hugs::
  • I'm so sorry for your loss!  You'll be in my thoughts and prayers...hugs too!
  • I am so sorry for your loss.  My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your DH and here's hoping that you can join us soon....
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  • I'm sorry for your loss. Just wanted to let you know I had 2 m/c's last year (on in May & Sept) and the dr's tested me and couldn't give me any answers. Don't get discouraged. I'm also considered "AMA" but decided to take control of my body and went on herbs to help balance my systyem and hormones out. I got pregnant in Feb of this year so stay positive. GL
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  • I'm sorry for your losses. There really are no words. Just take good care of yourself and take the time you need to grieve. If it helps you to know to not give up hope, my story is that we had 2 m/c's last year very close together (July & Oct) and got no answers. We were told to take 2 months off and eventually conceived naturally despite my AMA (37). I am now 5 months along and all seems well.
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