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anyone's parents ask them when they're going to have next kid?

My mom is anxious for us to have another baby.  While I already have baby fever and we plan to ttc at the end of the year or early next year I still worry about how we'll afford daycare for 2.  I don't remember my parents ever really asking when we were going to start our family but now that dd's a toddler my mom's ready for another grand baby.  Anyone else's parents like this?
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Re: anyone's parents ask them when they're going to have next kid?

  • Ours ask when we're going to take a break lol.
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  • Mil asks all the time and I quote " oh dont worry you just figure it out" when we we reply with we cant afford dc for two. um thats nice, lol. my mom understands that when we are ready we will have another if WE want not if mil wants haha...........ds is a dec baby and misses the cutoff so we have 3 more yrs bc K
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  • mine used to ask until I told them we're done...(we have 2)
  • We ARE expecting and my mom ruined it today by asking.  Why can't she wait to be told?  I lied, which I never do, but it all feels crappy now.  She stopped by unannounced and I was in my fat sweats with no makeup and all of my pg zits showing.
  • Yup, and I hate it. I just don't feel it's any of her business. We probably will have another, but I'm not comfortable discussing it with her (and then ahving her tell everyone else).
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    We ARE expecting and my mom ruined it today by asking.  Why can't she wait to be told?  I lied, which I never do, but it all feels crappy now.  She stopped by unannounced and I was in my fat sweats with no makeup and all of my pg zits showing.

    that is what happened to me and I was bummed too.   They all know we are done after this... 


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  • Us? No.  We had 2 in just a little over 2 years.    My sister, yes and I think they might be having trouble TTC #2.    So I feel bad that my mom asks or hints to my sister..
    Cheryl, Evan 4.25.05, Paige 7.2.07
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