TTC After a Loss

*~*~Ladies in waiting daily check in~*~*

This is group designed for all the ladies in the various stages of waiting after a loss: waiting to miscarry, waiting for AF to arrive, waiting to TTC again, and waiting for BFP.

 

Since this process is such a true test in patience, it is nice to have the support and friendship of other women going through similar experiences and emotions.

 

I will do a daily check in because from experience I have found that it is the best way to stay connected to everyone. If we need to modify that in the future then we can.  

 

Post your name and your goal.  There will be a daily question, a place for prayer requests and a daily inspirational verse.  

 

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Happy hump day ladies (especially to knelli :wink::wink::. And all of you are in FWP week too) 

Whooo hooo Abartane-let the countdown to O begin.

Cougar I am glad to see that you are in high spirits.   I can?t believe your cousin announced so early (oh to be so na?ve again).  Has she even had an ultrasound?   We announced early for our first pregnancy too and boy did we learn the hard way why you should wait.  With Ethan, I actually waited until I was 18 weeks pregnant to announce at work. Can you believe it?  I actually had a promotional job interview at 15 weeks and couldn?t risk it (there is actually a belly pic in my bio of me in my interview button up).

Good luck NMAWALLACE?only a few more days to go until you test.  I like Angie too, although I think she works too much.  She always seems so physically fragile.  She seems like the type you just keeps giving and giving of themselves until there is nothing left.

Jacquie, Peetie and Becka I love Johnny too. Although I like the clean cut version of him better. I think my DH even has a crush on him LOL.

The countdown for Ibis has begun?..9 days to go (right?)!

A lot of you really like Jennifer Aniston.  Isn?t she so cute?  She seems pretty down to earth and a lot of fun.

Sweetpea-you bring up an interesting point, the sensational magazines with UFOs, 30lb babies etc has been replaced by celebrities and their freakishly mundane lives LOL.  We are indeed a celebrity obsessed culture or I guess I should say generation.  

Whoa Nicolina only a few more days to go until you are testing?  Do you have a specific day in mind? And Whoohoo for purple who is officially in the 2ww!!!! Yipee.

 

Good luck MrsLynnea with charting and try not to let people pressure you.  Geez, we already put enough pressure on ourselves. 

Becka, I hope you get some answers regarding your cycle.  I hope you get that BFP real soon!

Ok Ade I have no idea who rascal flats is, but I am now going to google them?.LOL

 

Inspirational Verse:

?Go your way; and as you have believed, so let it be done for you? Matthew 8:13

  

                               

 

Prayer Request/s:   

-          Becky my friend who just lost her two twin boys at 24 weeks via c-section.

-          For strength and courage for Cougar?s grandma who just found out she has lung cancer that has spread to her lymph nodes and has decided to not seek any treatment

-          for Cougar?s DH's cousin who just found out she has cervical cancer... she is only 26!!

 

 

 

Question of the day:

 

When and where did you get married?  What was your favorite and least favorite thing about your BIG day?

 

 

Ladies waiting to try again

 

KristysRedBarn?.TTC in July or August

SuzP?.TTC in a year  

Jsworsham?.TTC May/June

Samm1983?.waiting for AF

Julybaby09?.TTC in April or May

TinaL99?.TTC in May

DSU98?..TTC in June/July

PeetiePie?.waiting for AF

Sue&Pasquale?waiting for AF

Krate24?.f/u appt April 29th

AbbyTownsend?.waiting for AF

Amandarene112?.TTC in June/July/August

Cowgirl?.TTC in June

Jswitcher?.waiting for AF

Jrosehistory?.waiting for AF

Nessa1014?.TTC in July/August

phillyandashley?.TTC in June

Bookgal?.waiting to O

Elenarf?.waiting for AF

str8ota?.waiting for AF

Miamicubajam?.waiting for IVF Sept-October

MrsTeri?.waiting for IVF cycle and April 30th appt

kmullins24?.waiting for AF

L2theC42?.waiting for AF

bostonfingerlakes07?.waiting for Doctors ok

heathergirl67?.TTC in July/August

annecoxrn?.waiting for AF

gin9874?.waiting for AF

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ladies waiting for BFP (give me your status updates please)  

 

Mrs.freitas?.waiting to O

Jpowell3

mrshutch?.waiting for BFP

Cougar2006?.waiting for BFP

mlmtgg?.waiting to O

mrsfarmer0711?.waiting for BFP

Mrskilbride

CaptainD

MrsCrabbie?.waiting to O

Brightgirl01?.waiting for BFP

Allie482?.waiting for BFP

Tina8307?.waiting for a BFP

Wickedsugar?.waiting to O

Ibis?.waiting for BFP

Heidisean?.waiting for BFP

loveistpws?waiting to O

knelli?.waiting to O

The Warrens?.waiting for BFP

Leah&Cole?.waiting to O

Iteachtoo?.waiting for BFP

Matt and Karen?.waiting for O

Mia07?.waiting to O

Amanda&paul?.waiting for BFP

ade2be?.waiting to O

brooke12?.waiting for BFP

Char-char?.waiting for BFP

Krp-b?.waiting to O

SweetieD21?.waiting for BFP

wewillserveHim?.waiting for BFP

Moonpalace?.waiting to O

NMAWALLACE?.waiting to O

BermudaBride07?.waiting for BFP

jayhawk2003?.waiting for BFP

SweetPea517?.waiting to O

deedeew80?..waiting for BFP

shellyrmml?.waiting to O

Mrs0815?.waiting for BFP

Gabrielle0509?.waiting to O

KearnsL23?.waiting for BFP

Nicolina08?.waiting for BFP

masonmom12?.waiting to O

PurpleK26?.waiting for BFP

*Blessed*?.waiting for BFP

kearnsL23?.waiting for BFP

TefLepOM?.waiting for BFP

Wntrbride05?.waiting for O

BELOVEDCARMEL?.waiting for BFP

MrsLynneaY?.waiting to O

Kristenanderik?.waiting for BFP

Septsoulmates?.waiting for BFP

VanessaRae9608?.waiting to O

KelinandKevin?.waiting to O

Eschall?.waiting to O

Beckastar?.waiting for BFP

Hesed139?waiting to O

waitingforbaby#2?.waiting to O

redsox2934?.waiting for BFP

Shelbyluvschachi?.waiting for BFP

bradsgirl4?.waiting to O

carasizemore?.waiting for BFP

Spldbrt?..waiting to O

Meegs 10.13.06?.waiting to O

smtaylor1?.waiting to O

redshoegirl?.waiting to O

dkfitz07?.waiting to O

ping1080?.waiting to O

Mrs.EmmaLouise?.waiting to O

Jacquiemark?.waiting to O

nferrante?.waiting for BFP

Addicted2thenot?.waiting to O

abartane?.waiting to O

 

 

 

 

Graduates:  

Qsuziez?.October 28, 2009

Ellenaxo?.November 6, 2009

MrsPatterson?.November 2009  

Erinash?.November 2009

MelissaAB5579?.November 14, 2009

DWBrideMar2008?.November 2009

Mustangcutie ?.November 2009

Janey_J_09?.November 27, 2009

Kaymee?.November 2009

hopingforababyin2009?.November 2009

*iLiAnA*?.December 5, 2009

SPC2007?.December 2009

RebandJake?.December 2009

Saverne?.December 2009

NCSunshinegirl?.November 2009

Ceramsey?.December 2009

Sweetsarahsmiley?.December 2009

92703bride?.December 2009

racer88?.December 2009

xnbride?.December 25, 2009

jen-dale?.January 2010

aimeelynae?.January 5, 2010

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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9 angels in heaven-3 in my arms and 1 in the NICU                                                                                                                                    
Mono/di twin girls: Josephine born to heaven and Evangeline born Earthside at 25w

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Re: *~*~Ladies in waiting daily check in~*~*

  • May 31 2008.  Danville KY on Centre College's Campus.

    FAve thing... DH looked so handsome and we had an opportunity to enjoy our families:)

    Worst.  The hair ladies were jerks.

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  • Yay hump day!!! We kicked it off yesterday!

    We got married at an old estate in our town.  It was beautiful with tons of rose gardens adn a huge mansion I love it!  My fav. part was the music and the food was amazing (even though DH and I didnt eat there, we had leftovers sent to our hotel room).  THe part I hated was my cake!  We picked out a georgeous cake that was so perfect for us and the florest added rose petals on each tier.  Hard to explain but it was NOT what we wanted!

  • Still waiting to O

    QOTD: October 17, 2008  in Connecticut at a small Inn on a lake. I could name a long list of everything I loved. But the best part was when we were announced Man and Wife. I can't think of anything that I didn't like. Wait, just thought of it.. the wallpaper.

    p.s. Xnbride, you rock for doing this!

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  • Waiting for the O!

     Married October 14, 2006 Little Falls, MN. my favorite thing about that day was seeing my DH almost as emotional as me! Least favorite thing was the fact that I was soo tired from stressing out all week I was ready for bed at nine o'clock!

    BFP#1 2/5/09...EDD 10/13/09...m/c 2/11/2009 BFP#2 7/15/09...EDD 03/27/10...Missed m/c on 08/27/09 BFP#3 on 10/29/2009...EDD 7/13/10 Bennett 07/12/10 9 pounds 4oz and 19 1/2 inches BFP#4 11/02/10...EDD 07/16/11 Elise 06/29/11 8 pounds 8oz 20 1/2 inches 2u2 for an entire year!!! WOWZA Forever buddy to Leah11599 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • ibisibis member

    9 days to go - wow, that doesn't sound bad at all!! Big Smile

    QOTD: Our wedding was so wonderful. My favorite moment might have been when DH read his vows to me - we had each written our own in secret. He was crying so hard he could hardly get through them. It touched me deeply. My least favorite was probably when the music ran out at the reception, though I was the only one who noticed. My H's least favorite part was when he cried, lol!  

  • I'm 6 DPO, just confirmed by doctor today (finally).  Waiting for a BFP... testing on Cinco de Mayo with Mia!  Arriba Arriba!!!
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  • CD4 

    Our wedding was in an old renovated barn outside of Seattle on January 13, 2007.  My mom was an absolute PEACH (Momzilla) ... you would think she was getting married.  My favorite part of the day was the time DH and I got to spend alone right after the cerimony and right before we were introduced... it was so much fun to have that time and just take in everything. 

  • We got married on September 6th, 2008 at St. John Vianney Catholic Church on St. Petersburg Beach, Florida.  My favorite part about my day was getting all dressed up in my beautiful dress and feeling like a princess for the day (plus I got my first ride in a limosine).....my worst part about my day was that it went by so fast...i wish i could have lasted FOREVER!
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  • still testing BFP this morning. but the line really doesnt seem to be getting much darker. Could use some doubling dust and some prayers, if you don't mind.

    QOTD: Bell Event Centre Cincinnati 3/9/08, instead of 3/8/08 as scheduled

    My favorite part was that it actually got to happen! There was a blizzard on 3/8 and the roads, highways and airports were shut down ALL day. We had to bump it to Sunday. Luckily the venue and vendors could accomodate. The food was amazing and the entire place is beautiful. It turned out perfect.

    My least favorite part was that the day went too fast and started too early, and that a lot of our guests had to leave right after our vows to drive home for work on Monday. Some didn't even make it because of the airport being closed most of sunday.

    Oct 2008 m/c #1 5 weeks, May 2009 m/c #2 4w5d. BFP 6/23/09 EDD 3/8/10!
    You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. -Eleanor Roosevelt
    After 1 year of TTC#2 BFP May 2011 m/c #3 4w2d. Off to RE.

    Round 1: Femara + Ovidrel +TI = BFP! EDD 2/20/12
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  • July 15th, 2006 in Jefferson, TX (outside an old bed and breakfast in their big courtyard)

    Favorite thing:  DH tearing up when he said his vows

    Least Favorite thing: my mom refused to come b/c I invited my dad Hmm 

  • I am still waiting to O :)

    You've never heard of Rascal Flatts?!?  You don't like country music then :)  They have some stuff that plays on some of the rock stations, but not much, most of it is country.  The lead singer and an awesome voice!  If you want to find a good song to listen to by them, my favorite is "Bless the Broken Road".....a more upbeat one "Everyday Love".  Anyways, they're really down to earth and always give God all the credit for their success.  Just really cool.

    QOTD: We got married Sept 14, 2008 on the property that we bought to build our home.  We built a gazebo to get married in and then had tents, etc brought in.  It was so US!  Anyways, the best part of the day (besides marrying the guy of my dreams)....we got married the day that Hurricane Ike came through Indiana (still at hurricane force winds).  It was so cool, cause the rain and wind died off just in time for the cermony...and stayed calm until the preacher was telling the story about the man that built his house on the sand and the man that built his house on the rock.  And he said "and the storms came and the winds blew" and all of a sudden, Ike hit in all of its mighty.  I think the preacher think he called it or something :)  Worst part....hmmmmm, it was too short!  With the storm in, most people left early, so the day was way too short.

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  • QOTD:  We got married in the church I grew up in and the reception was at a nearby country inn's banquet hall.  My favorite part was just being with my new husband and all our friends and family.  It was an awesome day.  The only thing I really didn't like was posing for pictures (not my thing) and dealing with my bangs... they did not look good... actually, dealing with the bangs while posing for pictures was pretty miserable... everyone was giving their opinion and looking at me like I looked bad.  Not fun.  The rest of it was a blast!
  • My husband and I got married on May 15, 2004. One of my favorite moments was when I saw my husband cry for the first time as I walked down the aisle. I also enjoyed the reception. The worst part is the week before my wedding it was in the 70s and the day of my wedding it dropped to the 60s and cloudy.
  • CD1 of TTC cycle 1 is getting closer, started spotting today.

    QOTD: We got married March 2005 at his Dad's church in North Houston with our reception at a dance hall built in the late 1800's.  Fav thing was seeing everyone!  Not so fav thing was the wedding coordinator, she tried to tell us where to stand and do during every second of the wedding.  She actually frustrated me so much that I got a headache during the rehearsal, well that and all the other emotions.

    Xn you do a great job!

  • I am O'ing! (postive opk today!)

    I got married 8/5/06 at the Butler Mansion in Buffalo, NY.

    My favorites - way too many to name - seeing my husband tear up, holding hands all night - my dress. the food. my dad's speech. I could go on and on.

    least favorites -- over way too fast. invited some people out of obligation -- wish they had been other people! 

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
  • Still waiting for BFP.  9DPO now, but I refuse to test until AF is late. 

    QOTD: April 20, 2008 in Auburndale FL Town Manor Bed & Breakfast.  Fave part: the initimate ceremony and butterfly release.  Least fave: over too fast and not enough dancing

  • Hellooo!

    Married 2/28/08, at Steele Canyon Golf Course here in SD. My fave part was enjoying the beautiful day with everyone I love! Least fave part, the corset I wore under my dress Crying

  • When and where did you get married? September 2, 2000 in a small town church in the country in Washington.

    What was your favorite and least favorite thing about your BIG day? My favorite thing was that almost all our friends and family were there.  Least favorite?  Hmm.... Our church was still set in the 70's with the tacky orange carpet and dark wood paneling. Not good for pictures.  I wish the timing of our wedding would have been better so we could have taken a real honeymoon, not just a three day weekend before going back to work. 

  • Waiting for AF.....or waiting to O.....not really sure

     We got married on 9/22/06 in Rhinebeck, NY....it was so beautiful..all the leaves were turning.  Only one thing that was "bad" - I was so annoyed with the photographer.  He was so slow and we were almost late for the reception!

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  • When and where did you get married? 

    September 20, 2003 

     In a park in Port Washington, WI

     

    What was your favorite and least favorite thing about your BIG day?

    Favorite - everything: it was casual, outdoors, excellent food, family, gorgeous flowers

     

    Least favorite - can't think of one thing.

     

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