I'm pretty sure we've decided not to get an actual bedding set. Anyone else? We both are thinking 'no' for using a bumper, and obviously you can't use a quilt (except for a blanket to lay on during play time) and we don't like the look of matching window treatments, and linen hampers we've seen in sets. So what we're thinking as of right now, is that we would register for fitted crib sheets (maybe several patterns and colors) and also some cozy blankets which can be used for all sorts of things. Not only will this save money (whether it's ours, or our loved ones, if we would have registered for a set) but also because it's wasteful for things we won't use.
Re: I really don't think we are going to buy a bedding set.
Yeah...I definitely want a 'theme' but not sure what that will be yet!! (we have our big u/s today, so hopefully baby will cooperate ) Also...I forgot I want a crib skirt too.
We didn't buy a bedding set for DD and we won't for any future children, either... for the same reasons you mentioned--no need for a quilt, didn't use bumpers (when she got older we bought the white breathable ones). A bedding set seemed like a waste of money.
We didn't find out DD's gender before she was born, so we did a Curious George-themed nursery. I made a mobile using CG finger puppets I found on eBay. I had a stuffed CG hanging over the crib. We had 4 framed pieces of CG wall art. For sheets we bought 2 red and 1 yellow... but we wound up using the Ultimate Crib Sheet on top of DD's sheets anyway, so really it didn't matter what color/design the sheets had.
We are also not using a bedding set. Our nursery is sort of a frog theme (determined when I bought a wall organizer that is a frog prince at Ikea recently), with green striped curtains and accents, and denim bedding for the crib and the guest bed we are leaving in the room for when we have guests.
I am registered for green crib sheets, I am making the curtains, crib skirt and duvet cover for the bed myself, and will paint a border around the room. So we still have a theme, even though we aren't using a "themed" set.
I made everything but my flat sheets.
You might want a crib skirt, because it hides whatever you put under the crib.
We're doing the same thing. There are so many cute blankets and sheets out there, you'll have no trouble finding stuff you like. This leaves a lot more money left over for wall art and a cute rug, things I'd way rather be spending my money on.
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I agree with you 100%. For me I love the kinds of decor I see on Ohdeedoh and the like - nice, coordinated, individual, and not cookie cutter at all. I can't imagine walking into a store like Babies R Us and just buying everything in a particular set. There are sets I like, but I'd rather put it all together myself. ?
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