Im sorry. Fighting sucks. Dh and I had a fight yesterday over stupid stuff. We were both sick and tired. I eventually just told him to shut it that our fight was over nothing important and we just needed to cool down. 10mins later we were ok.
I hope you and dh make up soon. When dh and I are trying to discuss something important that really needs to be figured out yet we cant talk about it without fighting we write out our argument and then read each others. Then we write down anything that comes to mind while reading each others. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesnt. We atleast get to hear (read) each others side with out screaming and interupting each other.
Re: Another huge disastrous fight with DH
(((hugs)))
I'll trade you mine who won't get his arse off the couch. Literally, he's been in the same spot for over 3hrs.
Might not work out so bad. Considering how much I DON'T love mine right now.
Im sorry. Fighting sucks. Dh and I had a fight yesterday over stupid stuff. We were both sick and tired. I eventually just told him to shut it that our fight was over nothing important and we just needed to cool down. 10mins later we were ok.
I hope you and dh make up soon. When dh and I are trying to discuss something important that really needs to be figured out yet we cant talk about it without fighting we write out our argument and then read each others. Then we write down anything that comes to mind while reading each others. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesnt. We atleast get to hear (read) each others side with out screaming and interupting each other.
Thanks LD! It might be a while before I get a chance to respond to your email - tomorrow probably.
Thanks for the support too - DH has a lot to do to repair this fight. Jerk.
Ryan 5/2010, Kyle 1/2007, Eric 3/2005
Christian Alexander - 11/13/06
Amelia Rose & Owen Thomas - 3/29/11
I had one with H a few days ago. I was so pissed, I took the boys and left so we could both cool down.
This, too, shall pass.