DH is not helping matters!

Stacy092306

I was trying to explain the fert report to him.  He reacts by getting mad because of his MFI being the issue.  Then, he says well, the one embie better work because this is our only shot!  WTF.  I know IVF is insanely expensive, but I am not giving up if this one does not work.  I will cash in all my retirement and savings.  I am not going to be childless.

Sorry for all the venting.  I just don't have anyone else to talk to, and I feel so bad. :-(  I always try to be positive, but it is not working today.

easjer05

It's a tense and emotional situation.  I know I've felt before like it's the miscarriages have been my fault because they are in my body and aren't working correctly, even though Dh doesn't think that or imply that.

Once he gets it out, it should be better and you'll be able to talk it over more rationally.  And hopefully, this embie will grow and work out.

shotzie

I'm so sorry.  *Hugs* 

MrsO1111

I would feel the same way about the finances, Stacy.

Hopefully he's just shocked and sad and scared and will come around on the other if it comes to that.

oh, and ((((more hugs))))

Matsifloxacin

I'm so sorry for this. Hopefully your DH will come around with his understanding of the process. Until then, you get (((big hugs)))) from me.

pmarie33

((hugs))

Nikki1007

{{HUGS}}

HazelEyes730

Lots of ((HUGS)) 

Serendipitie

((HUGS))

mtendere

I'm sorry.  I hope that after he cools down a bit, things will be better.