In light of all the DH venting let's AW our DH's and remember the good things about them:
DH is an amazing father. Better then I could ever have imagined considering what an incredibly crappy father his real dad was.
He doesn't hesitate to help me around the house if I ask (of course I do have to ask or he won't lift a finger). But he never complains about anything.
He puts up with me. That in itself is the best thing about DH. Because he loves me and everything about me. The love he has for me and DS is unshakeable.
Re: Let's have a DH AW!
DH is a SAHD - that in itself is a HUGE AW! Especially since he works on the weekends too.
He is an amazing father, patient as all get out. He never complains about doing things around the house, always thanks me for dinner...lol, I always catch him telling Preston that I'm a good mommy and just the other day he ran a bath for me (so it was ready when I got home from work). He does little things like that when I least expect them.
I'm grateful and thankful to have him for my DH.
I'm game....
He is so smart. He has a great job that allows me to be a SAHM & we live very comfortable without really budgeting, plus a great deal of savings & retirement.?
We can be so goofy around eachother!
We rarely, if ever fight. Honest. I think we can tell when the other is on the brink & take a step back. We can be open & that is nice.
He is so cute with DD.
He is a very hard worker & motivated.?
Even when I complain about him, I love him with all of my heart.
He is a great father. I see it everyday with dd, and when ever we have ss. He does everything he can to make sure they are happy and taken care of.
He gets home earlier than me, and has dinner ready AND the dishes done by the time dd and I get home.
If he thinks that I am neglecting myself, or that I need/want something and just won't spend the money on myself, he will go out and get it for me.
He is always there for me, and when I AM upset with him, he is always willing to sit down and talk it out instead of just flat out fighting about. I think that is what I love the most.
DH is great. ?He's the kind of guy that is willing to help anyone fix any kind of problem. ?
And he's so good at putting up with me. ?I'm the worst dieter in the world and he doesn't even seem phased by my recent food/exercise temper tantrums. ?
I'll ditto everything you said for my DH. I am so lucky to have a good looking DH that is an awesome dad and great husband.
He can do just about any home project. He can fix anything. It make take him all weekend, but he does it and saves us so much $$ by being so handy w/ the house and cars.
Christmas 2011
His love for DS is indescribable. PAC has DH wrapped around his finger.
He puts up with my crazyass family. And they are certifiable.
He is ridiculously patient, and he "gets" me. We never fight. If we do, it never gets blown out, and we're always able to talk about it.
He understands I need "me" time, and actually encourages me to take it.
He's motivated and ambitious, has a great work ethic. And he helps out around the house.
And, he cooks. Very well. And bonus, he moved from being an executive chef at work to taking an exec director (desk) job, so he cooks more at home! He even makes little individual gourmet freezer meals for PAC?mini shepherd?s pies, butternut squash mac and cheese, chicken veggie alfredo, black bean mango rice?I attribute PAC?s willingness/eagerness to eat everything almost entirely to DH?s cooking.
Liam is 5!