New Seattle Momma--Introduction

LD&Me

I am a new momma (really new) and am feeling a tad overwhelmed by everything so I thought I would stop lurking and join the bump.  We just had our baby last week and things sure have changed! I am home alone with the baby and feeling very much like I have no idea what I'm doing.  I am in love with my baby, but I'm wondering what I've gotten myself into...please tell me this gets easier!

MrsHeidiR

This is so very normal, so don't feel badly.  It can be very overwhelming at first.  Make sure that you are willing and accepting of help from friends and family and taking care of yourself.  If you don't take any time to "recharge" you will get even more overwhelmed.  Also, make sure you sleep when baby sleeps especially now in the early weeks etc.  Everything other than baby can be put off (i.e. housework etc.)  Right now, just worry about you and getting to know your new little one.  The rest will eventually fall into place.

Hang in there ;0)  This is a good place for venting and finding some comfort, asking questions etc. 

indigo91804

Welcome and it will get easier. It may take some time to get the routine of it all down. I think every new mamma feels that way. I remember looking at Logan thinking "what the heck do I do with him?" I begged DH not to go back to work. You'll do just fine. Take it one day at a time, one hour at a time if necessary and make sure you sleep. A good chunk of sleep ALWAYS changes your perspective.?

blueLu25

Hi and Welcome! It definitely gets easier and you aren't alone! There is a ton of good advice on these boards! I felt like I really had the hang of things around three months. Do you have anyone to help you out during the day? You can do it!

keri1013

Welcome! My little guy is still in utero so I can't offer "been there" advice yet, but from everything I have heard you are having very normal feelings. This board is great, I have found everyone to be very willing to answer questions and offer support. Hang in there, this too shall pass!

tfarabians

Hi welcome and congrats on your new arrival!  Being a new mom is tough and the hormones don't help either!  I can tell you that things do get easier especially once you learn their routine.  Such a fun first year you have ahead of you but it is one that takes a lot of time and patience.  The girls here are so great don't be afraid to ask questions!

chibipoe

Hello and welcome! It's completely normal to feel overwhelmed right now. If you have family and friends who are willing to help accept it, ask for it. It does get easier though. Don't be shy, it's a great group here and we're always willing to help.

JRS72206

Welcome! Glad you joined us!! It's much better to be involved then to lurk! Congrats on your new baby!

I'm now three months into the mom thing and it DOES get easier. DD is a lot more predictable and also a lot more fun. I felt the same as you for about the first month then one day it just "clicked". Its lots of fun once DC starts to talk, smile and laugh. 

AnnetteWalker

That is a very normal feeling. I felt the very same way. It does get easier. I promise. Try getting out and meeting others the class at Evergreen Hospital for 0-3 month old babies and Momma's is fantastic for a place to go and meet others and ask questions oh and it is free. Also here on the bump you can get lots of support.  Hang in there and don't be afraid to ask for help or a break from friends and or family.

IdahoGirl

Well...I'm still pregnant, but I have to guess that I will feel much the same way.

 PPers have said much of what I would - so I'll just chime in with WELCOME!!! We're glad you're here.