Surprise pregnancy - resentful dad

boymom2324

Hi, we had a surprise and my husband is trying to put on a happy face but I know he is less than thrilled about the new baby (we already have a 15 month old). He jokes about how “our lives are ruined” and it’s really hurtful to me, as I didn’t plan to get pregnant this soon after our first either but I’m trying to be optimistic. 

Any dads here that can relate? How can I help my husband?